make the ho say no

[check_mate_kid_uk]

i didnt make this up 'i am some one' told me this but im pretty sure i heared it way back and forget it, but basicly...

make the ho say no

people always say no shes not worth it, stop persuing her she does not like you. But i belive that in most cases, you have nothing to loose by carying on till you recive a more definite answer..hence make the ho say no.. do not stop till you get a no out of her or she LJBF you making it completly obvious she has no intent on ever going out with you.

do not stop because she blanced you or did not have time for you, you cary on persuing till you make the ho say no

obviously you are hoping not to get a no but you do not stop short of a no.

PS no im busy i cant meet up, does not mean stop, its NO i dont want to meet up with you, or NO i dont like you, this is when you give up the chase but do not fall short of this point unless you have a very good reason to, which you probably wont.

 

[Jariel]

I've always hated this saying and considered it the opposite of what most of us are striving for. A real man should not need to pressure women like this.

As I see it persisting until you get a definite "no" is nothing short of harrassment and a tactic reserved for desperate men with no dignity.

Besides, it may just lead to a fake number or a very harsh, loud and humiliating rejection.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

i was about to give up on a situation thinking the chances of her liking me seem to be sliping.

but then after talking to i am some one i think that although this is not the most 'gentleman' tactic, if you do not have many options its good to stop you from wasting any chances.

i do not mean completly bother her, just do nto give up untill you know she does not like you.

its pretty simple actuly just cary on exactly what you doing but for slightly longer.

 

[WesCottII]

Nothing new here. You're just spouting old information (it's gunwitch, for your information).

IMO, if she says she's "too busy", it ********, it means "GO AWAY AND STOP BOTHERING ME". You'll learn that after some real experience.

EDIT : Is pursuing a girl who doesn't reciporicate really worth it anyway? Her loss if she doesn't respond.

 

[Ice Cold]

My modest experience, given some IOIs, you should just go for it.

If you're thinking if you should, she's thinking why you won't.

If she says no or appears too shocked, say that you just couldn't resist... she's too charming...


MAKE SURE YOU GIVE HER A FEW CLEAR IOI, SO THAT IT'S NOT A TOTAL SURPRISE.

By giving her IOIs you're insuring yourself against sexual harassment. If she's not intrested, she'll make it CLEAR that you're not wanted. Then move on...

If she's ambiguous, then she'll be ok.