"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Make the "Guide to cutting up" Thread in H&F a sticky

Big-J

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subject says it all, it should go hand in hand with the bulking guide.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes it should, but this has already been talked about, i dont think its gonna happen. mainly cuz most of these guy from my observation want to get big over getting cut so thats what they would read more.
 

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It's a badly-kept secret.
I raised it in the mods forum, but the general consensus was that we want to have as few stickies as possible.

I might stick it in the next few weeks.

We'll see.

- De La
 

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Not being a mod I'd still like to offer an opinion.

Stickies are GOOD. I think a forum can get away with having at least three before it gets a litle silly. People are asking the same questions over and over and at the end of the day all of the technical ones are basically asking how to best bulk up/cut down...

They should definitely both be stickied. Along with a FAQ which somebody should compile. 95% of questions could be answered then without unnecesary topics being made which would keep the NEW TOPICS NEW and make discussion consistently interesting for newer members AS WELL AS VETERANS alike.

Just my take.
 
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