"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make sure your mind is clear when taking advice on SS

Naughty Ninja

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There's a lot of useful advice to be found on SS. Just be sure your mind is clear when you read and or put things in practice. (Any advice)

If not some of the advice read/used with a clear mind can REALLY screw you up in the head if it's processing it based off of your emotions at the time and not rationally in your best interests.

Process the information. Give it time. Don't wind up driving yourself insane overthinking everything.

After all you are trying to live the best, happy and fulfilling life you can. :up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Darth

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5string said:
The voices in my head tell me to take all is said on here as the truth.
LOL

I think it's important to think for yourself and have your own mind. Don't get brainwashed. This is not a cult (or shouldn't be).
 

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When it comes to having a clear mind and thinking logically when it comes to women, I've found that I'm most rational after a good long masturbation session.

-Scars
 
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