"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Make some free time

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From the end of the Summer, through to Christmas time I was at school during the day, I worked each week night until half 10, and my weekends were taken up with school work, revision for exams, and coursework. So it was all work with only a little play some saturdays. Life was boring, and I didn't meet barely any new people.

I left my job at christmas, and had my exams in January. So for the last 2-3 weeks my only commitments have been going to school for a few hours each day (because alot of the lessons are cancelled now, as we've done most the work) and i haven't had any homework either.

The results are great, im a MUCH happier person now, with lots of time for my friends and whatever else i want to do, I even spend more time with my parents now. Its all because I've actually had time to relax, enjoy myself, and improve my life. My school work has improved alot too, even though its abit late really. Im not sure how this is related, but over these few weeks I've become more interested in girls personalitys, and not so much in their appearance. For example the only girls I really go out of my way to speak to often are the ones who can make me laugh, and who can take a joke. These arent the really attractive girls either.

Im looking for a job, but thats only gonna make me happier, as I'll have money to go out and to save for a car, which will also mean i get out more.

The moral of the story is just free up sometime for yourself, so you can improve on who you are, and begin to enjoy life more.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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