"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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make sex memorable?

Big Eee Zee

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quick question-my gf is coming over to my dorm later tonight. She is leaving for school in a few weeks, and I'm trying to leave a big impression on her, so that she'll be thinking about me while I'm gone. That way when christmas rolls around, well, you know...So anyways, I already know I'm good; she has told others this, and that I can satisfy her, but I'm trying to make this really memorable. Something she won't forget about, and likely won't get again. I told her to tell me what she wants, that I'm real open minded and all. I don't know what she's thinking yet, but do you guys have any ideas?

Don't post stupid shyt like "have sex with her" or "don't worry about it". If anyone has any good ideas please share.

(also, this is a chance for you to give examples. I get ideas and you get to show off how awesome you are. It's a win-win situation.)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First of all, why do you need to make an impression on her? Isn't that what you did when you attracted her to you and began dating? If she's really into you, you shouldn't have to worry about this.

Are you really that insecure about your relationship that you need to make a huge impression on her before you go? She's going to remember ALL the times that she spent with you, not just one night of sex. She's going to remember how you made her feel on dates, and how you pushed her attraction buttons. She's going to remember how you made her FEEL, not how hard you made her come.
 

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i suppose. but she is almost a nympho, and sex is a big deal to her. its fine anyways. I realized my abilities don't need supplementing. ;)
 

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Mate if you're serious about this, I read once about a kama sutra technique which basically told how to massage a womans p*ssy.

No sh*t, it was a massage manual focusing just on that one area, and it had some ancient kama sutra-like name... but I forget it. I know it sounds weird but I'm not pulling your leg - I thought it'd be great to try with a serious LTR but I've not been in a LTR since I read about it.

Google it, I think it'd be very memorable for her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do her in the pooper, pull her hair and then whisper softly in her ear : 'I have hiv' If that isnt memorable, I dont know what is.
 

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:D HAHHAHAAHHAHAHAHHA

Have nice dinner and sex by candle light, with the sun barely down, and purple sky. No slow jams, have some nice hip-hop playing. Eat her out, and do it with VIGOR. Then, pump away.

Consider doing this by a beach if possible.
 
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