"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BowTie

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No more excuses. Get ****ing jacked (or at least healthy). If you are overweight the only person you have to blame is yourself. Do looks matter in pickup? The answer is NO, but working out isn't for getting girls or trying to make people put YOU on a pedestal, it's for your own health!

Have the mental fortitude and toughness to stick through your gym regimen. Consistency and having an attitude of a champion will help you in every facet pf your life. Stop making excuses and do it! You think people get jacked or lean over night? It takes months of hard work but you will not regret it. Are you ready to step up? Or will you just keep making excuses like you have been doing your entire life (and your laziness will bleed into other life decisions). The choice is yours.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crazystarf

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Currently cutting down from 200 to 180 while increasing strength. Appearances may vary at the end but whatever.

Just a tip for the people here: Intensity matters more than duration. Keep your workout plan simple (3-4 exercises per workout), but keep a consistent pace and work at it until you sweat like hell.
 

BowTie

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^ The sad part is the gym I attend is packed right now, but I know it will slowly return to normal in a week or two haha. People have no determination. It's pretty sad.
 

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^ yeah i hear you...most of them are doing all those rubbish routines given by trainers...
the other day i saw a resolution guy who went to the trainer and asked
"what is a powerclean?"

anyway a few mins later i see the guy doing bicep curls with the olympic bar,soi ask him "why are you curling with an olympic bar?"
he says " curls?no this is a powerclean"
....im def sure that was a biceps curl, either that or im a fuktard
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Krueg

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switch said:
^ yeah i hear you...most of them are doing all those rubbish routines given by trainers...
the other day i saw a resolution guy who went to the trainer and asked
"what is a powerclean?"

anyway a few mins later i see the guy doing bicep curls with the olympic bar,soi ask him "why are you curling with an olympic bar?"
he says " curls?no this is a powerclean"
....im def sure that was a biceps curl, either that or im a fuktard

:crackup:
 

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My diet is very simple, I drink roughly 2 liters of milk per day, which helps me eat a lot, When available, I often supplement the milk with protein powder, which adds to a lot of protein....
 

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Hmmm milk is good but 2 liters a day would get expensive. I've been eating about 6 whole eggs a day. Pastas for my carbs with chicken, multi-vit protein shake and nuts/pb. Get my calories in order. Trying to bulk it up!
 

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Best to avoid dairy products, guys. Get a copy of THE FOUR HOUR BODY, from your library. The author is Timothy Ferriss. You will be amazed at all the research he's done, on becoming faster, stronger, losing fat, beating insomnia, fixing old injuries, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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