Make it BIG?!

[Mr.Juggles]

when asking out a girl should it big? there is the girl i just found that likes me, and i like ehr as well and i want to ask her out, i was thinging about taking her out for hotchocolate and if all goses well, i would ask ehr out over the PA system at school, is it to much?

 

[SamRi72]

In a word YES!!!!! It is way too big IMO. She'll probably say yes initially and then after thinking it through, dump you. It will also come back to bite you in the arse when other girls you meet want something equally or more special. How do I know? I did something very similar when I was AFC. My first girlfriend. That lasted about two days LMAO.

Luckily, this was at camp. Your high school is almost like your home for four years. This is where you can DJ on your territory. Use the home field to your advantage, but watch yourself.

 

[Mr.Juggles]

make is some what big?

hey, i still want to do somthing no one else had before, this girl is really somthing else, and hes funny, and wont get embarrassed easly..anythoughts?

 

[SamRi72]

Do you know why she left him or what she absolutely hated about him? If so, DON'T DO THE SAME THING... duh. Other than that, use your game, keep things spicy with sexual tension and have fun.

 

[girl_in_a_boy_forum]

when asking out a girl should it big? there is the girl i just found that likes me, and i like ehr as well and i want to ask her out, i was thinging about taking her out for hotchocolate and if all goses well, i would ask ehr out over the PA system at school, is it to much?

OMG DON'T DO THIS. Asking a girl out is a matter that concerns only you and her, not the entire school, and she'll feel pressured and embarassed with an audience.

This is definitely too large a gesture, even if you're absolutely positive she'll say yes. I know you want to be thoughtful and make it special for her, but stuff like this just scares girls away and makes them want to run in the opposite direction.

My suggestion: ask her out during your hot chocolate pow-wow. More personal, more casual, less pressure, and more genuine.

 

[SamRi72]

OMG DON'T DO THIS. Asking a girl out is a matter that concerns only you and her, not the entire school, and she'll feel pressured and embarassed with an audience.

This is definitely too large a gesture, even if you're absolutely positive she'll say yes. I know you want to be thoughtful and make it special for her, but stuff like this just scares girls away and makes them want to run in the opposite direction.

My suggestion: ask her out during your hot chocolate pow-wow. More personal, more casual, less pressure, and more Ginuwine.

Edited to be more gangster. You're welcome

 

[Kev07]

no.

 

[The Shocker]

I will send Ted Haggard to your school and have him buttrape you in the auditorium in front of everyone if you do this.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

You want her to feel relaxed, not put on the spot.

 

[Mr.Juggles]

well as it turns out you guy's and girls arnt the only one thst think its a bad idea
so do all my friends haha, well i have lost the hole PA plan. I was thinking about maybeeeee becuase we are both in Drama class, asker her out in improve, i always say "go big or go home"

 

[TheVirtualMind]

well as it turns out you guy's and girls arnt the only one thst think its a bad idea
so do all my friends haha, well i have lost the hole PA plan. I was thinking about maybeeeee becuase we are both in Drama class, asker her out in improve, i always say "go big or go home"

It's not you are thinking about "Go Big or Go Home," but that is too big.

Just ask her out between class or something.

PA or something too big = :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono: :nono:

 

[bigjohnson]

You're just a person who wants to spend time with another person. We're social animals and it's a natural thing, don't stress.