"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Make her want it.

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I just want to bring up a subject and get everyones view.. sex appeal.

A nice girl I was speaking to said to me, "there was this guy i met the other day, he had a very powerfull presence about him, he wasnt all that good looking, but i really wanted to fcuk him"
I thought, why is that??
She said, "i just didnt know if he wanted me or not and he seemed so manly"...
Hmmm...????? ok, heres my view on this one..
Be very serious the next time you meet a hotie. Sometimes, when you cant see any expression on someones face, it can have a few benaficial effects..
An old managers trick i know ensures my workers know whos in control and who is in charge. If you remain expressionless, your showing that you are no easy pushover, your dominant. alot off door men use there blank facial expression for the same reason...Ever noticed?
If she looks to your face and see's dominance then you will seem "manly".
Heres the cool part..
Without realizing it, we look to one anothers facial expressions for answers to the questions we are asking ourselfs e.g- is he enjoying my company? does he like me? is she interested in what im saying? has she notced that i like her...etc, etc.. If she looks to you face and cant find an answer she wont know.

By showng no facal expression, you are, in a way, denying her the answers to all those questions she is asking. This makes people wonder. Shes becoming curious and you are a mystery.Your showing that you are in complete control of yourself. Your incharge of what your doing and what you want to do.

You will soon notice people tryng to win a smile or some affecton out of you.. SMILE!!
Now i think its a good time to have a laugh.. Why? Your influencing people to earn your approval, your expression.. Thats another managers trick. When someone smiles at you, i bet you like it, right? Dont just let women have your smile straight away. Its easy then. If they earn it, they will enjoy it more.

I wonder if you can use your voice and your body language in the same way too..


"there was this guy i met the other day, he had a very powerfull presence about him, he wasnt all that good looking, but i really wanted to fcuk him"
i thought, why is that??
she said, "i just didnt know if he wanted me or not and he seemed so manly"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good post. Certainly NOT an AFC trait - maintaining composure when baited for responses. Positive reinforcement, make 'em work for your approval ;)
 

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That's 90% of my game... girls love when I do this 'thing' with my lips...

I do it.. and they fall into bed... i'd show u guys, but thas a tad gay and i haven't had enough shots yet :rockon:


-COd3r
 

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Exp said:
Does this mean that one should walk around expressionless all day long? Wouldn't people avoid you for being boring and "weird"?
use your head...:rolleyes:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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