"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Make her want it.

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I just want to bring up a subject and get everyones view.. sex appeal.

A nice girl I was speaking to said to me, "there was this guy i met the other day, he had a very powerfull presence about him, he wasnt all that good looking, but i really wanted to fcuk him"
I thought, why is that??
She said, "i just didnt know if he wanted me or not and he seemed so manly"...
Hmmm...????? ok, heres my view on this one..
Be very serious the next time you meet a hotie. Sometimes, when you cant see any expression on someones face, it can have a few benaficial effects..
An old managers trick i know ensures my workers know whos in control and who is in charge. If you remain expressionless, your showing that you are no easy pushover, your dominant. alot off door men use there blank facial expression for the same reason...Ever noticed?
If she looks to your face and see's dominance then you will seem "manly".
Heres the cool part..
Without realizing it, we look to one anothers facial expressions for answers to the questions we are asking ourselfs e.g- is he enjoying my company? does he like me? is she interested in what im saying? has she notced that i like her...etc, etc.. If she looks to you face and cant find an answer she wont know.

By showng no facal expression, you are, in a way, denying her the answers to all those questions she is asking. This makes people wonder. Shes becoming curious and you are a mystery.Your showing that you are in complete control of yourself. Your incharge of what your doing and what you want to do.

You will soon notice people tryng to win a smile or some affecton out of you.. SMILE!!
Now i think its a good time to have a laugh.. Why? Your influencing people to earn your approval, your expression.. Thats another managers trick. When someone smiles at you, i bet you like it, right? Dont just let women have your smile straight away. Its easy then. If they earn it, they will enjoy it more.

I wonder if you can use your voice and your body language in the same way too..


"there was this guy i met the other day, he had a very powerfull presence about him, he wasnt all that good looking, but i really wanted to fcuk him"
i thought, why is that??
she said, "i just didnt know if he wanted me or not and he seemed so manly"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good post. Certainly NOT an AFC trait - maintaining composure when baited for responses. Positive reinforcement, make 'em work for your approval ;)
 

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That's 90% of my game... girls love when I do this 'thing' with my lips...

I do it.. and they fall into bed... i'd show u guys, but thas a tad gay and i haven't had enough shots yet :rockon:


-COd3r
 

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Exp said:
Does this mean that one should walk around expressionless all day long? Wouldn't people avoid you for being boring and "weird"?
use your head...:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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