"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Make girls work for you

Dhoulmagus

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It is just like basic finance. Make the money work for you, do not work for money. We are jaded because we are working for women and constantly having to keep our guard up. The lucky ones do not have to cold approach/pua stuff because they have girls coming to them. In essence, we are working on our resumes/applying for jobs while the poon slayers are building their business.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just like that.

You have to HAVE money before you can make it work for you. (Or maybe you know a lot more about financial leverage than I suspect).

Same with women.
 

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Tictac said:
Just like that.

You have to HAVE money before you can make it work for you. (Or maybe you know a lot more about financial leverage than I suspect).

Same with women.

From Yaboi's link:

Essentially what I'm saying is don't go about staring and looking like you are searching for pvssy. Stop looking like a hungry dog especially if you have no game to back it up. Compose yourself even if you haven't ever had sex or you are going through a dry spell. Women can read your vibe so your desperation will always come out. If you do get opened think of things logically at all times and try not to be overwhelmed by the situation.

I like that. I think it's what the OP is alluding to...

A bit like money, once you've put in a little hard graft (on oneself) at the beginning, access to women only perpetuates, with a bit of maintenance and continued self-preservation.
 
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