"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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make friends who are girls

proteinshake

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this is a realization i have recently come too. i hear all this talk of keeping girls out of friendspace. as long as you demonstrate higher value than the girl who is your friend and show you genuinly are not sexually interested in her, chances are she will like you. ive seen this plenty of times with my female friends. ive cut off pretty much all my just friends girls and i wish i hadnt. i think its good to spend time with the other sex even if its just friends but if u begin to like the girl and get oneitis or whatever use ur game. getting ***** maybe a game, but life is not a game and thats the truth
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mind_Body_Soul

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I've been working recently on building my social circle of women who are not fvck buddies. It always adds instant social value when you show up somewhere with a bunch of hot chicks. I need to get me some of those ;) problem is if she's hot I probably want to bang her.
 

Heart Break Kid

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Not just girl, make friends with really beautiful girls. You'll become a lot more confident and comfortable talking to HB's if you have a lot of HB friends. Of course, you must tease them then tell them you hope they know you guys are only friends thought! :D

In a month you'll learn more than any book could teach you-- just make sure you look at how they act-- not what they say. It's also great social proof if you're in school!

- Kash
 
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