"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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make canned openners,your canned openers.

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To all the people wanting to use canned openers.Great!Use them,but don't use the ones great pua artists use.I say take the time to make some up yourself.
It will best fit who you are and what your personality is like,and it will fit what surroundings your in from time to time.Like college,work,bar,whatever.

I don't use canned openers.I never put in the effort to memorize them,but I have heard a lot of people criticize them.Saying they don't work because their meant for the people who made them.Go natural they say.

I have also heard the opposite though.
It would be best if one would come up with some themselves.See what works and then discard it or keep it.
I am in the sales business,and we are given a script to memorize and read to people. I experiment by shortening it and getting to the point,or I just make up my own BASED off of the script.I use the script to come up with something different that I can use with my personality.Sometimes one version works better than the other.

So take a pick up line,make up one,whatever the point is just make it your own. How much effort you put into it,you will get that much back.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cool dude said:
TO all the poeple wanting to use canned openners.Great!Use them,but don't use the ones great pua artist use.I say take the time to make some up yourself.
It will best fit who you are and what your personality is like,and it will fit what surroundings your from time to time.Like college,work,bar,whatever.

I don't use canned openers.I never put in the effort tom memorize them,but I have heard a lot of people criticize them.Saying they don't work because are meant for the people who made them.Go natural they say.

I have also heard the opposite.I figured it would be best if one would come up with some themselves.See what works and then discard it or keep it.
I am in the sales business,and we are given a script to memorize and read to people.Well I experiment by shortening it and getting to the point,or I just make up my own BASED off of the script.I use the script to come up with something different that I can use with my personality.

So take a pick up line,make up one,whatever the point is just make it your own.

Tarzan say: What Can opener? What Can? Tarzan need one of these Can opener! New local 7-11 in Jungle no sell fresh foods but food pictures in metal objects! Unga Bunga Boo!
 

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cool dude

i agree you need a structure to follow but you can adlib between your lines

i always ask the same 4 OPENERS ( stacking the openers it s called ,THE SAME NEGS AND I CAN REAL CONVOS GOING at least for 3or 4 MINUTES i bail out come back exchange digits
 
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