"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Major sh*t test from this girl on date

Jack Hensy

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This girl I had a date with I told her to meet me at O Reilly's bar at 8pm. Then two days later I changed plans texting her to meet me at Brewsters Pub at 7pm. It was closer to my house and they offered happy hour. I sent her a text telling her to meet me there instead. She agreed.

So I arrive at Brewsters and I am waiting this woman sends me a text telling me she is at O Reillys. She sends me a text telling me this while I am waiting for her at Brewsters.

I sent her a text saying..."hey I sent you a text confirming to meet me at brewsters at 7pm.
I almost blew her off.
I didn't want to be a jerk and didn't care...so without texting her I drove a few miles to O Reillys to meet her. I wasn't happy about it and should have stuck with my gut and blew her off.

The date was a bust. No attraction at all. How to deal with a test like thatt? Sh*t test or was she clueless?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She might had forgot. I have done this a couple of times by a mistake. When you think something else while reading the message is easy to make a fail.

No need to take everything as shyts tests
 

Reykhel

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So, you arrive at the first bar at 7pm....you wait....

She arrives at the other bar at 8pm and texts you to tell you she has arrived...

You mean you sat in the first bar waiting on her 1 hour? Without texting or calling
her to see if she was on the way or if she was held up or running late or not coming?
You sat there and waited an hour?

YOU are a ****e test.
 
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