"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Major Oneitis going on...

UpstateDon

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First post, awesome forum you guys have here.

I'm 34, do pretty well in the game department. I usually never get hung up on anyone.

Met this stupid hot girl through a mutual friend. She's 23. Has a good job, elementary ed teacher and works at night. Smokes a ton of weed, before both jobs and at night... which I never pegged this girl for. Seemed super straight laced. She adds me on Snapchat and Facebook.. yea Social Media is usually a no no I know. She actually doesn't post much on Facebook.. couple snaps to her story on Snapchat here and there.

I can usually pull pretty hard but this girl is something else. We have some mutual friends and have been in groups together. She is super flirty with me but that seems to be it. I try to play it cool but she's eating away at me. (I know, spin plates, ignore her) but I dunno what it is about this broad. Has little past BF history (also odd imo). Maybe she just smokes at night instead of banging dudes lol

I need to just drop this girl and if she comes after me go for it I guess. Dunno why I can't stop thinking about her, could be the body. it's a damn 10/10. She's a bit mysterious too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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