"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Major life update... Success?

playa99

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I've not been able to post on here much lately... The reason being that I just haven't had the time.. Ive been busy LIVING.

I'm not putting down this website by any stretch of the imagination, I've taken the principle's that Ive learned here and applied them to my life.

I've stopped giving a FVCK about what other people think.

I've realized that the best way to meet women is to get a social circle, go out with your buddies who are like minded and just talk to women, you can chat so much sh!t its unreal, if a girl likes your personality.. your in, all you gotta do is have the balls to get that number.

Meeting women should be fun.. The girl i'm seeing at the moment, she asked my name... I told her a fake one, she was hooked in... she asked for my number, couple of dates later we're banging and now 6 weeks on were exclusive. You gotta have fun, its a MUST.

Women aren't a priority in my life, I run a business which is doing well and im setting up a second.

I've learned mystery is telling women about things and not feelings.

Getting people to do things for you helps to make them like you.

Do what you want.... I went to St Tropez for the weekend 2 weeks ago. I was told NOT to get a quad bike and drive it drunk... Did I do it.. Yes, in hindsight was it stupid.. Yes. You gotta do what you want though, you can't let anyone completely control what you do. Your in control of yourself, you gotta be.

Right now I'm happy, I have a good life, and I know that.. I'm confident in who I am and take things a day at a time.

Life isn't that complicated, you just gotta have fun and do what you want!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan

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oi, the people who give a damn about what others think of them. :woo:

You know I all but forgot that concept, and I meet these other people that I interact with and they seem weird and rude, they put themselves above you when they see you do something that they can't do. If I didn't read your post and remembered this concept of giving a damn what others think, I'd continue to think they are fat and ugly morons.
 

Ronaldo7

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The concept of this site is applicable everywhere. People care too much what others think, say, or do about them. Always think how much significance and importance that person reports to you. They could get hit a car tomorrow for all you know. Would you care if they did? Probably not. That's the concept of discerning what's important and what isn't.
 
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