"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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major help asap!

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mtlwlu

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Ill get to the point, my neighbours invited me to a party, no big deal right? one of the neighbours happens to be my oneitis and the main reason why i found this forum. anyways s*** hit the fan last march with her and we litterally havent seen each other sense, and now they invited me to party. Should I go? and if I do how should i react around her? friendly hello or ignore her? considering shes been a major B**** to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea go, anythings better than regret.

just act chill. don't worry
 
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oakraiderz2

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Get drunk and bone some chick.
 
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Personally i would go. Have some fun and when you enivitable conversaion with the girl happens be polite smile alot then just move on to talking with someone else when the plesentaries are done. no one is asking you to maintain anything more than a 2min convo with her. its unlikely your even on her rader so dont stress it, you've got nothing to prove to her, no points to win no score to settle. be cool and do your thing! i doubt your still hung on her per say and just worried about the social aspect of it all, in other words this whole thing just stems from you wanting to not come off not needy or insecure so that you can 'impress' her. scratch this whole concept from your mind, to reitterate you have nothing to prove to this girl. she's just a girl in your reality and not by your post a very nice one at that. This means you have even less reason to prove anything to her.
if you think it would help, go with a mate so you have someone you can have a laugh with. in other words go met some new people and enjoy yourself!
 
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