Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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major help asap!

mtlwlu

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Ill get to the point, my neighbours invited me to a party, no big deal right? one of the neighbours happens to be my oneitis and the main reason why i found this forum. anyways s*** hit the fan last march with her and we litterally havent seen each other sense, and now they invited me to party. Should I go? and if I do how should i react around her? friendly hello or ignore her? considering shes been a major B**** to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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touge

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Yea go, anythings better than regret.

just act chill. don't worry
 

oakraiderz2

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Get drunk and bone some chick.
 

shinko

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Personally i would go. Have some fun and when you enivitable conversaion with the girl happens be polite smile alot then just move on to talking with someone else when the plesentaries are done. no one is asking you to maintain anything more than a 2min convo with her. its unlikely your even on her rader so dont stress it, you've got nothing to prove to her, no points to win no score to settle. be cool and do your thing! i doubt your still hung on her per say and just worried about the social aspect of it all, in other words this whole thing just stems from you wanting to not come off not needy or insecure so that you can 'impress' her. scratch this whole concept from your mind, to reitterate you have nothing to prove to this girl. she's just a girl in your reality and not by your post a very nice one at that. This means you have even less reason to prove anything to her.
if you think it would help, go with a mate so you have someone you can have a laugh with. in other words go met some new people and enjoy yourself!
 
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