"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maintaining your 5'a clock shadow?

Centaurion

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In the last week I've totally rewamped my style. I'm now going for a permanent intelligent/scruffy look with a 5'a clock shadow.

Now for those who have that scruffy look, how do you guys maintain your beard so it looks like a 5'a clock shadow all the time?

:rockon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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donjuanjovi

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On my electric razor there's a little flip up attachment for trimming sideburns, beards, mustaches, or whatever the hell else you grow on your face. I find if I use it on my entire face it leaves a nice prickly scruff. I'm now clean shavin' but I find it works very well and doesn't irritate.
 

onyx

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Yeh I have an electric shaver, with a flip thing too, it trims it nicely..not to short not to long
 

mrRuckus

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Ouch how can you use that thing for the rest of your face? I can just picture my face getting all raw and red using that.
 

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I saw a beard trimmer in Sears whose packaging stated that there is a special attachment for just such a purpose. Can't remember the brand name, but you'll probably find it because the statement is very clear.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eminence

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it depends on how fast your hair grows, trying shaving at night instead of the morning.
 

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I go with the grain when I shave. Leaves some stubble.
 
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