"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Maintaining your 5'a clock shadow?

Centaurion

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In the last week I've totally rewamped my style. I'm now going for a permanent intelligent/scruffy look with a 5'a clock shadow.

Now for those who have that scruffy look, how do you guys maintain your beard so it looks like a 5'a clock shadow all the time?

:rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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donjuanjovi

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On my electric razor there's a little flip up attachment for trimming sideburns, beards, mustaches, or whatever the hell else you grow on your face. I find if I use it on my entire face it leaves a nice prickly scruff. I'm now clean shavin' but I find it works very well and doesn't irritate.
 

onyx

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Yeh I have an electric shaver, with a flip thing too, it trims it nicely..not to short not to long
 

mrRuckus

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Ouch how can you use that thing for the rest of your face? I can just picture my face getting all raw and red using that.
 

Sun Tzu

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I saw a beard trimmer in Sears whose packaging stated that there is a special attachment for just such a purpose. Can't remember the brand name, but you'll probably find it because the statement is very clear.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eminence

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it depends on how fast your hair grows, trying shaving at night instead of the morning.
 

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I go with the grain when I shave. Leaves some stubble.
 
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