Hey there,
you guys seem to offer pretty good advice. Well, things were going pretty well with a girl, where the next meetup more than likely would have meant sex. We met up about 4 times, made out a few times, she stopped me short on sex on the 2nd meetup worried I was going to be a fwb. Now, it's summer time and we won't be anywhere near eachother. Of course, I'm not going to get hung up on her but I see no reason to not maximize the chance of things happening when we return. We're both college students.
that being said, what is the best way to maintain maximum interest? Is it basically to just not contact her at all? That seems to be the ideal approach, or at least maybe once a week or so. I thought she had potential to be more than a friend's with benefits, so I am thinking that maybe not contacting her at all could lead to her thinking that is the case.
thoughts?
you guys seem to offer pretty good advice. Well, things were going pretty well with a girl, where the next meetup more than likely would have meant sex. We met up about 4 times, made out a few times, she stopped me short on sex on the 2nd meetup worried I was going to be a fwb. Now, it's summer time and we won't be anywhere near eachother. Of course, I'm not going to get hung up on her but I see no reason to not maximize the chance of things happening when we return. We're both college students.
that being said, what is the best way to maintain maximum interest? Is it basically to just not contact her at all? That seems to be the ideal approach, or at least maybe once a week or so. I thought she had potential to be more than a friend's with benefits, so I am thinking that maybe not contacting her at all could lead to her thinking that is the case.
thoughts?
