"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First time i've ever had a weak performance. Her head game was ok, sorta numbing..a lot of foreplay. Did her missionary for a while, I came...and then that was it. Couldn't maintain a second erection no matter how hard she sucked..I was able to get it up but by the time I got the condom on...limp.

I just wasn't able to maintain a second erection. It's concerning me because it has never happened to me before....but why did it happen today?

I've narrowed it down to a few reasons why it MIGHT have been a problem.

*Havent' masturbated in over a week..so I came for the first time in a while ..maybe that had something to do with it?

*I was HUNGRY like a hippo, all I had was cereal.

*I wasn't really too sexually attracted to her..

*Only had a few hours in the hotel room...maybe I was trying to rush?

What do you guys think? How common is this...also..any tips so I make sure this NEVER happens again?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sometimes it just doesn't work out. No biggie. Next time just make sure you pound her real good.
 
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This has happened to me once in my life, and I had none of the problems you listed. Sometimes there's just no explaination for it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If I'm not mistaken, the time you can't get it up after you first nut is called a refraction period. Try googling it and see what you come up with.
 
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Weird, I never have a second eretion. Is that normal? Anyhow, I figure I make her come as many times as possible while holding off. So far so good. But how can I get an erection right after I come? I'm 18, btw.
 
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Originally posted by Disconnect
Weird, I never have a second eretion. Is that normal? Anyhow, I figure I make her come as many times as possible while holding off. So far so good. But how can I get an erection right after I come? I'm 18, btw.
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Look at her (.)(.) and her ()().
 
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Originally posted by sharpshooter


I've narrowed it down to a few reasons why it MIGHT have been a problem.


*I was HUNGRY like a hippo, all I had was cereal.

*I wasn't really too sexually attracted to her..



What do you guys think? How common is this...also..any tips so I make sure this NEVER happens again?
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those are both good reasons.
Dont go hungry again.
and you might want to be sexually attracted when you have sex, I thought thats a given but there you go.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i read somewhere you need 20-30 minutes after busting to regain a full erection. do some other "stuff" for half hour,then slap on a new rubber and go at it again.
 
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I got that problem too, It takes me almost an hour to recharge if she is doing her job in keeping me turned on, but if not it takes about 2-3 hours for me to get horny again.

Oh well.
 
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Ya... I'd say it was the... "not so sexually attracted to her"

You already got your nutz off the first go...

so by the second time, you could probably care a lot less, on top of not being so attracted to her... your body was just prob. over it.

Also the lack of food thing as well. Your body saying... "NO!" we need to reserve our energy, rather than wax another round off on this not so attractive chick, we just waxed.

Don't sweat it.............

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