Anyway i've never been in a relationship.
But so far so good i've been DJing this girl for about 2 months. Obviously down the line from the beginning to now some things are bound to change. Such as being a little nicer to her, less of a mystery, less of a challenge....Now im not saying these changes are necessary. But with time things are bound to change between 2 people compared to your initial encounter of gaming the girl.
From the get-go this girl did most of the chasing and contacting. And usually we sms or talk almost everyday and end up talking about each others day. But so far this week i noticed some changes...She doesnt text me as much as initially but still does, doesnt struggle to cover the tab but ends up paying half. But by all means she still attempts to look/dress her best for me.
Lately for me, i've been running out of stuff to talk about/ask about...which just makes me appear aloof when with her. The date yesterday i mostly did c&f/teasing stuff to since we kind of ran out of stuff to talk about.
I dont know if this is normal for something going on for 2 months or just going for the worse. I do have a somewhat active social life going on which doesnt revolve around her. Perhaps for her it feels like the chase might be over and the challenge gone, since this is turning into a bf/gf kind of relationship. i still am doing my best in being spontaneous with different date location/ideas. but eventually she'll have needs too that want to be fulfilled in some form or another.
The true challenge with dealing with women doesnt seem from picking up, it appears to be maintaining relatiionships and marriages. For those who are and arent in relationships, how do you maintain the attraction/interest going on?
But so far so good i've been DJing this girl for about 2 months. Obviously down the line from the beginning to now some things are bound to change. Such as being a little nicer to her, less of a mystery, less of a challenge....Now im not saying these changes are necessary. But with time things are bound to change between 2 people compared to your initial encounter of gaming the girl.
From the get-go this girl did most of the chasing and contacting. And usually we sms or talk almost everyday and end up talking about each others day. But so far this week i noticed some changes...She doesnt text me as much as initially but still does, doesnt struggle to cover the tab but ends up paying half. But by all means she still attempts to look/dress her best for me.
Lately for me, i've been running out of stuff to talk about/ask about...which just makes me appear aloof when with her. The date yesterday i mostly did c&f/teasing stuff to since we kind of ran out of stuff to talk about.
I dont know if this is normal for something going on for 2 months or just going for the worse. I do have a somewhat active social life going on which doesnt revolve around her. Perhaps for her it feels like the chase might be over and the challenge gone, since this is turning into a bf/gf kind of relationship. i still am doing my best in being spontaneous with different date location/ideas. but eventually she'll have needs too that want to be fulfilled in some form or another.
The true challenge with dealing with women doesnt seem from picking up, it appears to be maintaining relatiionships and marriages. For those who are and arent in relationships, how do you maintain the attraction/interest going on?