"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maintaining a frame at all times is pandering to others

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Explain how maintaing a frame at all times isn't pandering to what you think will one up a woman or trying to get your way with one every time. This forum always talks about maintaining frame with women. If you didn't care what women think or react to you wouldn't have to worry about maintaining a frame at all times because needing to do so is nothing more than pandering, and placing her on a pedestal by walking on eggshells while pretending to be demonstrating strength.

It's like a little kid holding their breath, saying they don't care and trying to hold a frame when no one is falling for it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You maintain "the" frame and "your" frame for you, not for her. Her succumbing to "your" and thus "the" frame is simply the byproduct of your unwavering self-respect, leadership, and boundaries.
 
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