"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maintain Your Frame

ProDJ26

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Often theres alot of talk about getting the ladies and what not. I love women probably more than most of this board and after hearing the neighbors fight for a couple nights I got an inspiration for this thread. No matter who you are or where you are it all comes down to this:

"MAINTAIN YOUR PEACE OF MIND". It took awhile but I think I'm finally getting this. Isn't it funny how the little things in life seem to nag at us until its a bunch of little things that make a BIG problem? Thinking about my experiences I can say that alot of the negativity could have been avoided had I'd been at peace with myself. Just think there's someone out there doing LIFE behind bars just because they let someone or something get at them. As a Don Juan I think its important to know that no matter how dark it may seem around us it always will get better. We should be able to ''maintain the frame'' so that no outside source can affect us within. So the next time sh!t happens keep your cool

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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BadNews

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Great post. Though it is often hard to maintain your poise when you encounter difficult situations, if you ARE able to...the outcome is nearly ALWAYS better than the alternative.
 
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