You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I do not know one single black person who has openly sided against either Trayvon Martin, Michael Brown or Eric Garner. The only black people I have seen at all, are Tenacity and the police chief from Milwaukee. Both got called Uncle Toms.Social_Leper said:Yes. This is completely representative of black people.
In fact my friends and I (black) regularly engage in such activities, since with not having jobs and the like (welfare ftw!) we have a lot of free time on our hands.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Winner.Who Dares Win said:I still give credit to those guys, they are open and direct.
I have much more respect for them than for a random white leftist and his passive aggressive estrogen fueled shaming tactics, wish there will be more guys like those and less leftists and I believe somehow they are inversely proportional.
With no logical counter but it's feeeelz the sh!tlib shill demands censorshipEmbers84 said:Why is a racist thread like this not deleted? It demeans blacks plus they are bringing politics into it with "sh!tlibs" and saying "White leftists deserve to be set on fire." What kinds of sh!t is that? These people are mentally deranged. I ask for this thread to be deleted like mine was. My thread compared President Obama to Ronald Reagan showing Obama outperforming Reagan on jobs and the economy. This is a blatant racist thread that shouldn't be allowed on the boards. I'm asking for the site owner to delete this thread due to breaking the rules of politics and racism.
Embers.
You're a racist sh!tcon. I don't believe in any censorship at all. My thread was censored after I posted it. If this site is going to censor my posts, then a post like this should be deleted as well. i have no problem with anybody posting what they want. If my posts are going to be censored, then this should be censored too. We can't have a forum only go only one way in here. According to forum rules, this thread breaks the rules and should be deleted. I'm wiling to abide by the rules and so should you.( . )( . ) said:The sh!tlib shill demands censorshipWho'd a thunk it?
death and destruction is all blacks understand huh?speed dawg said:I hope they keep it up. Even the most brainwashed of the sh*t-libs are starting to wake up due to all of their recent feral activities. Those black radical groups deal in intimidation, bullying and fear. They know that is all they have. Take that away from them and they are completely powerless. Death and destruction, that is all they know and understand.
How are these guys able to just sit there and yell death threats?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
http://nicedeb.files.wordpress.com/...essives-losing-debate-use-race-card.jpg?w=780Embers84 said:You're a racist
Embers84 said:I don't believe in any censorship at all.
:crazy:Embers84 said:I'm asking for the site owner to delete this thread
MUH DIK!!Fatal Jay said:I guess looking at your miniature d*ck and balls make you hate blacks more
We be Gyptuns n sheeet!Fatal Jay said:lying about and changing history books
Negged for being a bigotlord. Nobody here knows the IQ's of those blacks. Take that cis-white privilege over to stormfront with the rest of the NAZIS!!Hydra said:This video is a group of retarded blacks
I'm very very hesitant to call for people being banned from a message board, (considering that it's happened to me a very times for no reason.) However, something needs to be done. Unless speed dawg, the viking dude, and Tenacity can post some game related threads with proof of them being in field hollerin' at chicks, then they should be banned. If I want to read this sh*t day in, and day out, then I'd join a site like Stormfront.Fatal Jay said:these dudes should have been banned a long time ego, I guess looking at your miniature d*ck and balls make you hate blacks more
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Statistics be raycis !Fatal Jay said:Whats funny the average black person does not even think about whites, but these dudes go around and conduct studies and statistics on why blacks do this and do that,lol
Ummm wow, just wow. White privilege much? No black is NOT the politically correct term. Try "Person Of Color" whitesplaining BIGOT!!Hydra said:I'm not racist just cus i used the term 'black' that is the politically correct term.
now u gettin into jews too? wut about hispanics for the trifecta?taiyuu_otoko said:
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.