You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It seems mostly reverse racisim nowadays. If you are white, you are automatically bad. As for Nazi's and Germany, many people still put both together. Asians, I do not see much racist tendencies against Asians; aside from everyone thinking they are good with numbers. Racisim against blacks have gone down quite a bit. Yes, it's still here, but it's getting better.
Not so much. Nazi is a special type of person. A person who deserves to be ignored at all costs. The other's, while in bad judgement are usually due to ignorance or stupidity. Nazi's is pure 100% hatred towards any person who's not of their sect. Back in the day, I've beat down more than a few; and I am not even Jewish.
One's real, the other is fictional. Minor issue.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Never cared for him, his brother nor his father. Then again, it's not a problem I need to worry about. Been out of NY for years.
Nah, Nazi is no way equivalent to racial slurs. Unless you’re suggesting white people are all Nazis?
Look at the misdirection. You made the claim Nazi is equivalent to a racial slur for white people. That would require the assumption that all white people are Nazis. Is that what you’re arguing?
The spin game is pathetic. Your claim that Nazi is a racial slur for white people is just total bullshyt.
Nazi is not a racial slur for white people. You made the asinine claim that it is equivalent to other racial slurs. It’s a false equivalency. You are showing your Nazi sympathy again.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.