"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Main plate finally caving in

AllDay85

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After a nearly 4 month power struggle, my main prospect finally caved in, started a fight for no reason, and then broke down and said she wants to be my girl, but wants me to lose the other women.

The whole time she has been spinning plates and i knew about it. I believe she really wants the relationship because my game has been on point.

But what bugs me is she's lying about seeing other guys during our courtship.

To you guys consider this a deal breaker? I could try to keep spinning the plate, but i think it's a breaking point.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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C-quenced

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Behind those tears she is being cold and calculating. You my friend is being manipulated. Listen to your spidey senses. It's telling you she's no ****ing good. Just use her for whatever pleasures she brings into your life then lose her when you get sick of her. Don't get emotionally and mentally entangled in her B.S. and keep spinning plates even if you tell her you won't.
 

El Payaso

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Crocodile tears. Boo hoo. What the guy above me said. They're just manipulative tears.

She can't stand that she's not your only source of sex. She hates that there's nothing special about her to you.

It's all about control to her. Once she's able to lock you down. The pu$$y withdrawal will slowly begin.

If you decide to get into a relationship with her, you have to be very mentally strong. Your relationship game must be 100/100.

Honestly though, it's just going to be more trouble than it's worth. Rather than having an honest discussion about what she wants, she starts a fight and breaks down crying.

Who does that remind you of? Little kids, that's who. Only a child does that. This girl has the emotional maturity of a toddler.

My advice would be to keep plating her. If you really want to see her respect for you go up, tell her that she should learn to communicate like an adult rather than starting fights and crying like a little child.

Tell her in a stern voice. She will immediately look up to you like a Daddy figure of authority. She might throw a tantrum but a day or two of no contact will give her more than enough time to think about what you said.
 

HeadLightsOn

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Behind those tears she is being cold and calculating. You my friend is being manipulated. Listen to your spidey senses. It's telling you she's no ****ing good. Just use her for whatever pleasures she brings into your life then lose her when you get sick of her. Don't get emotionally and mentally entangled in her B.S. and keep spinning plates even if you tell her you won't.
OP this post ^^^ makes so much sense. This is the reality IMO.
 

om1xr

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This type of girl is just good for booty calls when you want to bust a nut. and your game isn't that tight or on point if these types of girls are your main focus. She is basically a *** dumpster for you and other guys
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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