"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal

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If I'm sending a letter to Canada (I'm in the US,) do I only need 1 37 cent stamp?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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skinnydart

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No, you will need more than that. 37 cents is only within the US (including Alaska).

I thought you were a mod?
 

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Canada is outside of the US, and as such you'll need both a higher rate stamp and a Customs Declaration (CN 22). Just click the "Documents" box, fill out the rest, attach the stamp, attach the green sticky portion of CN 22 to the envelope, and send it on it's way. A postal employee should be able to give you the needed sticker/form along with a stamp with the correct postage based on the weight of the envelope.
 

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eternal this is not the apropriate place to post such a question, you of all people should now there is a secret internatinal postage forum on the board after a vast number of requests. Obviously those requests where not in the form of a letter as the requesters did not know how much the postage costs for their letter :p
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
eternal this is not the apropriate place to post such a question, you of all people should now there is a secret internatinal postage forum on the board after a vast number of requests. Obviously those requests where not in the form of a letter as the requesters did not know how much the postage costs for their letter :p
What the hell are you talking about? :rolleyes:

Diablo - Guess I'll head over to the post office tomorrow since it's closed now (backwards town.)

skinnydart - See the thread "Tired of the Arguing" in the S&F forum...I already explained that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd like...Call the post office...or something...
 
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