"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stand said:
It doesn't surprise me that some people here would consider this.

How ridiculous.
Exactly what I was thinking.

I miss the days when there were actually Don Juans on this site that would come into a thread like this to put it to bed.

Really sums up the current state of sosuave.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Exactly what I was thinking.

I miss the days when there were actually Don Juans on this site that would come into a thread like this to put it to bed.

Really sums up the current state of sosuave.
I don't think YOU understand. I myself am not saying im giving up on the game or giving up on self improving myself to be the best man that i can be. I am simply saying that i have a curiosity in foreign women, being as though everyone says they are more well mannered and would make better wives than American ones.

Does that make me any less of a DJ or a man if im curious??
 

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250% less likely to divorce? Wow, guys who like foreigners are so DUMB. :rolleyes:

Coming from a dolt that's been here shorter than *I* have it's pretty funny. Ah, the good old days.
 

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I think it would be fun to check out these foreign chicks and party with them. So much hate over a discussion.
 

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armadon said:
I think it would be fun to check out these foreign chicks and party with them. So much hate over a discussion.
I agree on both counts. It's sad that someone would be so insecure they have to start putting others down for harmlessly leveraging a situation that is in their favor. The mind boggles.

"A real DJ would never ... <insert inane comment>"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re:

LeComteDeMonteCristo said:
Exactly what I was thinking.

I miss the days when there were actually Don Juans on this site that would come into a thread like this to put it to bed.

Really sums up the current state of sosuave.

TBH, I've been here 4 years+, and checking out Foreign women isn't a BAD thing.

As far as I'm concerned, gaming a BAD woman (i.e. American hoe) just to stroke your ego is a waste of energy, time, and potential failure. I've never personally HAD a foreign gf, but I will GUESS that someone not born and bred in the fish bowl that is the US of A has a different outlook, expectation, and view on life.

Could a beauty from a foreign country go totally ape**** because of her looks, demanding everything and then some?

Sure, but how is that any different than how most of the US women already feel? I'd wager if those marital odds are better, it's because you have a chance of getting a non-materialistic, traditional woman, plus the good looks, minus the bad attitude.

Having come from little myself and working for all I have, I don't demand much to make me happy, I appreciate what I get, I work hard for what I have, but to me, possessions aren't life, nor is life status or situation. I value the journey, the moment, the Now, the people, and living right.

In my estimation, the state of humanity has plummeted because so many grow up with expecting alot, kids aren't challenged, and grow up with mommy and daddy shielding them. Too many girls grow up with "stuff" and "status" their mother's never did until they were married, perhaps not ever. While you want your kids to be better, these same daughters do far LESS, are far LESS feminine, a little more nuts, and overall are not the "rock" mother's and grandmother's were.

Generations of long ago saw far more "strong" women, who still parterned with men in marriage. Alot of guys here can remember more present grandmother's. Compared to the ladies of today, going for a foreign bride isn't BAD. It's probably stupider and foolish to think you can game and change a woman. Their sense of "change" and memory is less than the memory of a fish.

A-Unit
 

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Great Post ^.

I like your explanation for why some guys like foreign girls. The two best and also hottest girls I ever hooked up with were from England and Mexico... Not having that materialist western mindset and just the fact that they have a different perspective makes them more appealing, and interesting!

I hooked up w. my first "spring breaker" since moving to florida and to try and carry on a conversation with this girl was a chore after the first night.She was from where I grew up in the midwest.

I actually like the language barrier sometimes because it makes things interesting and you have to work on your BL and other stuff more.
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With that said, save your money and go visit other countries besides the U.S, Canada, or England. Meet girls there and then get a correspondence going. Though you actually still need some game to score in the clubs or wherever, but it's free ~!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A-Unit said:
TBH, I've been here 4 years+, and checking out Foreign women isn't a BAD thing.
I agree, I find many foreign women charming, and they are far from inferior alternatives. Someone has been watching Lifetime Network for Bitchy Older Women too much.



A-Unit said:
.... I will GUESS that someone not born and bred in the fish bowl that is the US of A has a different outlook, expectation, and view on life.
And you would be right. I just got back from (tropical destination elided) and it was like being a rock star.* On top of that, the women are not confused regarding gender roles, nor are they shy or awkward about them. They are the woman, you are supposed to be the man. Simple, natural.


*This is my imagination, I have never been a rock star.



A-Unit said:
Could a beauty from a foreign country go totally ape**** because of her looks, demanding everything and then some?
I would expect more due to becoming westernized over time if you take her out of her native habitat, but I bet they would be fairly resistant if you managed it correctly. They have lived their formative years in a place where men are men and women are women, and that is a huge help.




A-Unit said:
.... Their sense of "change" and memory is less than the memory of a fish.
Often true.

Once I filter through the massive list of swimsuit model-like candidates and get the plate collection to a manageable size I will try to give more details without violation of anyone's privacy.
 
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