Magma
Senior Don Juan
I posted this on another forum, and thought I would share it here at SS. I just can't seem to verbalize how I game and get physical with women on these boards. It's like I was born without that ability. However, another poster inspired me to write it down.
A well-performed massage, combined with a sprinkling of ear nibbling, neck touching, and the whispering of "sweet nothings" is quite effective.
In my younger days, it's how I went from watching movies with her to having her naked and begging for it. Nowadays, I can be more direct with women as I've gotten older and more seasoned. I have perfected this move over many years of trial and error. Enough of that. Onward.
It begins by slowly massaging her upper neck with one hand. Right where her hairline is on the knape of her neck. Slowly. Timing is effective, but not key. Then you switch to both hands. Maybe you have to reposition your body. That's okay. In fact, it's a good thing because it shows her that you are focused on making HER feel comfortable by focusing on HER and her comfort.
Begin to kiss her traps. Light kisses. Maybe pull her collar off to the side a little to get a better kiss. Remain focused on the massage. This is where the clothes begin to come off. You move from her shoulders/traps down to the muscles that run parallel to her spine (her main back muscles). Inevitably, her shirt/bra strap with become "cumbersome" to the massage. This is when you slide your hands up under her shirt in the back and place your hands directly on her skin, gliding over her bra. It's very important that you don't try to put your hands up her shirt until you've warmed up a bit. That's why working her for awhile is paramount. You don't want to kill the moment with cold hands. Make sure they're warmed up a bit. DON'T GO TO UNHOOK THE BRA YET. Work her back a little. It's always two steps forward and one step back. Burn that into your brain.
So now you have your hands on her bare back (minus the bra, shirt still on). Inevitably, the shirt will become a nuisance to your AMAZING back rub, and you will have to remove it. The key here is communicating to her (either verbally or kinesthetically) that you just want to give her the best back massage you can, and removing her shirt is only a way for you to accomplish this goal. You're NOT thinking about sex (you ARE thinking about sex, but that is not what you want to sub-communicate). Help her remove her shirt. If you have done everything correctly up to this point, she will be right there in assisting you in her garment removal.
So now you have her facing away from you with her shirt off. Bra is still on. Go back up to the shoulders. This is another key. DON'T GO FOR BRA REMOVAL YET. Work the shoulders. Again, you are softly kissing/caressing around her neck area, breathing/whispering in her ear. Maybe throw in a little neck/earlobe nibble. Make it seem like you're getting a little worked up yourself (which you should be). As you work her shoulder area, you should fumble EVER SO SLIGHTLY around her bra strap intentionally. The idea is to make it seem as if the straps are a hinderance to your work at the moment. Slide them gently off her shoulders so that they hang down. Massage on her bare shoulders for a while. REMEMBER, keep kissing/caressing during ALL of this.
Now, you can work on getting the bra off. Start kissing her shoulders and move your hands down to her back. Preferably, you would like to have her lying on her stomach, but it's not necessary. If you are both still sitting up (usually on the couch), it still is okay. So now you have her shirt off and her shoulder straps off. You can begin rubbing the middle of her back with a little more intensity. Not much, just a little more than what you've been doing. Slide your hands UNDER the back of her bra and continue with the massage. This is where you need to intentionally fumble around a bit, as if the bra is severely impeding your massage (which in reality it is). Go for the removal. It's time. It's been a natural progression from watching movies to having her half naked. Work her exposed back entirely for awhile. Maybe a dab of baby oil is in order (you better have that sh!t in your nightstand, Player). Preferably at this point, I like to have her laying on her stomach whilst I straddle her over her lower ass (as if I'm in position to ram her from behind). I remove my shirt and lean forward and begin kissing her neck and ear, allowing my exposed skin to touch hers. She is now ready to bone you, and will practically be begging for it.
In my experience, from the beginning of the massage to this point takes anywhere from 20-35 minutes if done properly. It took me a long time to perfect this progression back in the day. Some of the keys are to take your time, use both hands and your mouth, and don't progress too quickly. TWO STEPS FORWARD, ONE STEP BACK. That is KEY.
That's it. That's how you get the job done. That is...seduction.
I would like to add one more point about the massage itself. I have developed my own massage techniques over the years, and they work fantastically. If you don't know how to massage a woman with your hands/arms, then you're making it a lot tougher on yourself. I've picked up some great techniques just by going and having a massage for myself. I had a former gf treat me to a day at a spa at a resort in British Columbia (Tigh-Na-Mara Resort, I highly recommend it). I picked up some great techniques from the massage therapist there.
Ciao!
A well-performed massage, combined with a sprinkling of ear nibbling, neck touching, and the whispering of "sweet nothings" is quite effective.
In my younger days, it's how I went from watching movies with her to having her naked and begging for it. Nowadays, I can be more direct with women as I've gotten older and more seasoned. I have perfected this move over many years of trial and error. Enough of that. Onward.
It begins by slowly massaging her upper neck with one hand. Right where her hairline is on the knape of her neck. Slowly. Timing is effective, but not key. Then you switch to both hands. Maybe you have to reposition your body. That's okay. In fact, it's a good thing because it shows her that you are focused on making HER feel comfortable by focusing on HER and her comfort.
Begin to kiss her traps. Light kisses. Maybe pull her collar off to the side a little to get a better kiss. Remain focused on the massage. This is where the clothes begin to come off. You move from her shoulders/traps down to the muscles that run parallel to her spine (her main back muscles). Inevitably, her shirt/bra strap with become "cumbersome" to the massage. This is when you slide your hands up under her shirt in the back and place your hands directly on her skin, gliding over her bra. It's very important that you don't try to put your hands up her shirt until you've warmed up a bit. That's why working her for awhile is paramount. You don't want to kill the moment with cold hands. Make sure they're warmed up a bit. DON'T GO TO UNHOOK THE BRA YET. Work her back a little. It's always two steps forward and one step back. Burn that into your brain.
So now you have your hands on her bare back (minus the bra, shirt still on). Inevitably, the shirt will become a nuisance to your AMAZING back rub, and you will have to remove it. The key here is communicating to her (either verbally or kinesthetically) that you just want to give her the best back massage you can, and removing her shirt is only a way for you to accomplish this goal. You're NOT thinking about sex (you ARE thinking about sex, but that is not what you want to sub-communicate). Help her remove her shirt. If you have done everything correctly up to this point, she will be right there in assisting you in her garment removal.
So now you have her facing away from you with her shirt off. Bra is still on. Go back up to the shoulders. This is another key. DON'T GO FOR BRA REMOVAL YET. Work the shoulders. Again, you are softly kissing/caressing around her neck area, breathing/whispering in her ear. Maybe throw in a little neck/earlobe nibble. Make it seem like you're getting a little worked up yourself (which you should be). As you work her shoulder area, you should fumble EVER SO SLIGHTLY around her bra strap intentionally. The idea is to make it seem as if the straps are a hinderance to your work at the moment. Slide them gently off her shoulders so that they hang down. Massage on her bare shoulders for a while. REMEMBER, keep kissing/caressing during ALL of this.
Now, you can work on getting the bra off. Start kissing her shoulders and move your hands down to her back. Preferably, you would like to have her lying on her stomach, but it's not necessary. If you are both still sitting up (usually on the couch), it still is okay. So now you have her shirt off and her shoulder straps off. You can begin rubbing the middle of her back with a little more intensity. Not much, just a little more than what you've been doing. Slide your hands UNDER the back of her bra and continue with the massage. This is where you need to intentionally fumble around a bit, as if the bra is severely impeding your massage (which in reality it is). Go for the removal. It's time. It's been a natural progression from watching movies to having her half naked. Work her exposed back entirely for awhile. Maybe a dab of baby oil is in order (you better have that sh!t in your nightstand, Player). Preferably at this point, I like to have her laying on her stomach whilst I straddle her over her lower ass (as if I'm in position to ram her from behind). I remove my shirt and lean forward and begin kissing her neck and ear, allowing my exposed skin to touch hers. She is now ready to bone you, and will practically be begging for it.
In my experience, from the beginning of the massage to this point takes anywhere from 20-35 minutes if done properly. It took me a long time to perfect this progression back in the day. Some of the keys are to take your time, use both hands and your mouth, and don't progress too quickly. TWO STEPS FORWARD, ONE STEP BACK. That is KEY.
That's it. That's how you get the job done. That is...seduction.
I would like to add one more point about the massage itself. I have developed my own massage techniques over the years, and they work fantastically. If you don't know how to massage a woman with your hands/arms, then you're making it a lot tougher on yourself. I've picked up some great techniques just by going and having a massage for myself. I had a former gf treat me to a day at a spa at a resort in British Columbia (Tigh-Na-Mara Resort, I highly recommend it). I picked up some great techniques from the massage therapist there.
Ciao!