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Magical Eye contact 101 - simply eyes

Blackgame

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have you ever noticed, when one of your friends were scared he or her pupils were extremely dilated? This is a none fact that when your set in times of distress, your heart rate increases, your hearing becomes more acute, you feeling of touch increases, at extreme times you can even taste fear. Your eyes dilate so your mind absorb all the information it can in order for you for you to escape the danger you put yourself in...

why is this important??

It isn't, but learning is part of personal development - so if you didn't know the above you just grew as a person

cheers!

seriously there is another fun fact that might interest you a little bit more, pupil dilatation also is a sure sign of interest!

let me explain. Your eyes can't lie, no matter how much you try it simply can't be done. its a process that happens when we take into view something that is dear to us - as in a beautiful girl, your mom ect

In context women eyes will enlarge when sitting/standing across a man that arouses them, now to the average man this is of course useless cause he doesn't even know about it- but we the super duper sexy men of the world know that this is a sure fire sign of attraction.

Eyes don't lie

When are people in general not just some your dating, there is room for people to take advantage of you by lying . there are a lot of things a person can control when they are being deceitful... their eyes are NOT one of them

Once I was on a date with a young lady, we were having nice time, laughing joking flirting you know the usual. We came to a topic about parents I told her how my mom was a nurse, and my dad was sick and not working at the time, and how I felt about the situation. When it got to her turn I noticed her eyes began to blink at a much faster pace then normal, she had been blinking maybe once or twice per min, yes, she wasn't much of a blinker - but when it was her turn to talk about this topic her blinking pattern changed to maybe 5 times that. me being the blunt person I am I asked what was she hiding... long story short she didn't know who her dad was, and made up a story about him being an air plane pilot sigh women ;)

just like pupil enlargement, blink rate is next to impossible to control. its very difficult to try and stop blinking while engaged in good conversation. pay attention to the details.

Triangular gazing

The area from eye brow- to eye brow-to the tip of the nose is called the eye triangle. When talking to a woman keeping your eyes in this area will increase awareness and attraction to you. Women by nature thrive on attention, they spend years in the bathroom to get ready for a date they don't even want to go on(just playing ladies) just like its our nature to look at the beauty that is a woman - its theirs to seek our attention. all the same try not to break your gazing on their sexiness until your in a more intimate setting...

Give Them a Flash

One can show his or her interest by "flashing" his eye brows up really quick after eye contact is made is like our natural mating call. Every culture on earth the eye flash is common. If someone isn't giving you an eye flash back its more then likely to be an indication that your first impression isn't up to par with her. if a girl is flashing you its best to flash them back :)

The eyes are the key to the soul, with a great base in how they work, you can gain powerful insight.

remember the attraction increases as mutual gazing increases so look at them one, then twice then look at them some more...

-blackgame
 

tsmith2334

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Blackgame said:
Give Them a Flash

One can show his or her interest by "flashing" his eye brows up really quick after eye contact is made is like our natural mating call. Every culture on earth the eye flash is common. If someone isn't giving you an eye flash back its more then likely to be an indication that your first impression isn't up to par with her. if a girl is flashing you its best to flash them back :)
That's a really good one. Logically it makes a lot of sense being that it's like a mirrored reaction and it's instinctive.

I tell ya, just when I thought I had mastered all the body language tips, I learn a new one. Much respect my friend. :up:
 
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