"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you don't like lieing cold to women, then this thread isn't for you, no need to read farther..

If you are a man who believes in using whatever tools he can store in his toolbox, then read on, because I am about to give you a tool that I thought of myself, and just tested for the first time with success:

Log into Yahoo messenger on your computer, set your status to "I'm moble". Wait about 15 minutes..

Send message to HB of your choice on your buddy list. Pretend like you are another chick, we will call her "fake HB"..

"Fake HB" tells "HB buddy" that "the real you" stepped away from the bar and went to the dance floor, and left their phone sitting at the bar. You, "fake HB", started playing with it.. "Fake HB" casually talks to "HB buddy" about how great "the real you" is dancing, how much fun "real you" is having, how hot "the real you" looks on the dance floor, how "fake HB" wants to go home with "the real you" tonight, whatever you want to do..

Man, this works like no tomorrow.. "Fake HB" just increased "the real me's" value with "HB buddy" by about 20x, in a matter of 5 minutes.. Good stuff!!!:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sounds sketchy. a lot of people may not believe it's true, it's trying too hard anyways.
 

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"Fake HB" tells "HB buddy" that "the real you" stepped away from the bar and went to the dance floor, and left their phone sitting at the bar. You, "fake HB", started playing with it.. "Fake HB" casually talks to "HB buddy" about how great "the real you" is dancing, how much fun "real you" is having, how hot "the real you" looks on the dance floor, how "fake HB" wants to go home with "the real you" tonight, whatever you want to do.."

This paragraph is very difficult to understand. Let me get this straight. Go mobile on AIM, then pretend you are some random chick and start bragging about yourself to other girls... I can't think of a single girl who would fall for that. Are you serious?
 

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petah2001 said:
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"Fake HB" tells "HB buddy" that "the real you" stepped away from the bar and went to the dance floor, and left their phone sitting at the bar. You, "fake HB", started playing with it.. "Fake HB" casually talks to "HB buddy" about how great "the real you" is dancing, how much fun "real you" is having, how hot "the real you" looks on the dance floor, how "fake HB" wants to go home with "the real you" tonight, whatever you want to do.."

This paragraph is very difficult to understand. Let me get this straight. Go mobile on AIM, then pretend you are some random chick and start bragging about yourself to other girls... I can't think of a single girl who would fall for that. Are you serious?
Have to play it, start out by just a "hi" and a "who is this" and f**K around a little but, use common sense.. But basically, yeah, that's what I am saying. Like any other tactic on this site, a true DJ knows there is nothing to loose, so just try it for yourself..
 

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So this girl gets a text from you, but this time claiming to be a girl . . . a girl who has decided to text a random total stranger, a stranger who could be your sister, for all she knows, swearing that she wants to bang you. And that she wants only this one person to know. This one total stranger on his buddy list.

So she has an entire conversation of "hi and who's this" and "by the way, I would like to have intercourse with this guy" while you're on the dancefloor - with your phone at the bar where anyone can take it. For half an hour.

Okay.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOL it's out there, it bizzare, it's risky, and it's original. Scarafice a HB who you don't have one-itus for and just try it.. The real me is chatting with "HB buddy" as we speak, getting ready to leave to go over to her house to get some :moon:

Get off this forum right now and just go try it.. Talk to you fellas tomorrrow, need to stop at Walgreens on the way.. :rockon: Just trying to help you guys here as you all have helped me...

current score: RISK TAKERS - 1 , SKEPTICS - 0 :D
 

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And if she ever finds you out....the score will be more like:

You: -34
Her: doesn't matter
 

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ValleyDJing said:
And if she ever finds you out....the score will be more like:

You: -34
Her: doesn't matter
LMAO B**ged her 3 times last night when I got there.. But just to be fair to you guys, I will keep my points as 1 for right now.. :cool:
 

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this is so crazy, might work bro
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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logicallefty said:
a true DJ knows there is nothing to loose, so just try it for yourself..
Don't ever associate pathetic attempts to artificially raise your social status with the term "DJ" ever again.

What you are suggesting is the opposite of what a DJ is all about.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Don't ever associate pathetic attempts to artificially raise your social status with the term "DJ" ever again.

What you are suggesting is the opposite of what a DJ is all about.
I hear that.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
Don't ever associate pathetic attempts to artificially raise your social status with the term "DJ" ever again.

What you are suggesting is the opposite of what a DJ is all about.
Attempt? An attempt is something you aren't successful at, so we can't call this an attempt, because it worked..

Artificial? Well, I guess none of us can ever wear cologne again then according to what you are saying, because that's an artificial smell.

I also thought being a DJ was about opening your mind and going beyond places that you've went before.. Yeah this tactic is a little dirty. But I think it's safe to say that if women didn't play dirty, none of us would be here on this site trying to figure out how to play back...
 

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Well as far as I remember, Cassanova went and did some far out sh!t too. If it got him laid and that's all he wanted, then I think his seduction technique was successful. It was pure seduction, that's all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you are a ****ing idiot dude, i can't believe a person would actually post that and not be kidding.


**** you are so DUMB! how the hell do you survive on a day to day basis?


how can you possibly think a girl would believe that. i seriously think you are too stupid to understand the 1000 reasons why she wouldnt so i will stop right here.

idiot.
 

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Mitch_Mustain said:
...................you are really dumb
OK, I guess we can just agree to disagree and leave it at that... FYI I refuse to engage in childish flaming on this site. It's pointless...
 

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seth03 said:
you are a ****ing idiot dude, i can't believe a person would actually post that and not be kidding.


**** you are so DUMB! how the hell do you survive on a day to day basis?


how can you possibly think a girl would believe that. i seriously think you are too stupid to understand the 1000 reasons why she wouldnt so i will stop right here.

idiot.
Wow you people are mean! Didn't you hear what he said? He got laid because of it! HE GOT LAID BECAUSE OF THIS TACTIC! WHICH MEANS IT WORKED. Granted I don't think it would have worked on everybody, (South beach diet doesn't work for everyone either) but it worked! As silly as it was. IT. WORKED.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Wow you people are mean! Didn't you hear what he said? He got laid because of it! HE GOT LAID BECAUSE OF THIS TACTIC! WHICH MEANS IT WORKED. Granted I don't think it would have worked on everybody, (South beach diet doesn't work for everyone either) but it worked! As silly as it was. IT. WORKED.
Some people just like to hear themselves talk.. As a police officer, I don't mind people relieving their life aggressions on me on this site if it means that is one less person in the real world they might beat, rape, kill, etc.. So it's ok, I don't mind..

Yes, it worked. Way easier than I figured it would..
 

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I can't really hate on this method but I don't endorse it either. But that's like me going into a casino and seeing a game I don't want to gamble on. If If the odds don't suit me and the variables aren't to my liking, I'm not going to play. At the same time though, If you make a fortune off of said game then good for you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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