"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Magic Number of Dates?

mtlwlu

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Im just wondering if theres a magic number of dates when it goes from "seeing" each other to "in a relationship with..." I think Im having a quarter life crisis being in my last year of university, I feel like I need to settle down soon lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewGuy72

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well, I don't see why you need to settle down for but I do understand that you want to be in a relationship. I'm in the same position (I don't want to settle down though, just have a LTR) but I can't find a girl that I actually like. But back to your question, the answer is whenever the 2 of you decide you want to be exclusive.
 
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