"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Magic Number of Dates?

mtlwlu

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Im just wondering if theres a magic number of dates when it goes from "seeing" each other to "in a relationship with..." I think Im having a quarter life crisis being in my last year of university, I feel like I need to settle down soon lol.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewGuy72

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well, I don't see why you need to settle down for but I do understand that you want to be in a relationship. I'm in the same position (I don't want to settle down though, just have a LTR) but I can't find a girl that I actually like. But back to your question, the answer is whenever the 2 of you decide you want to be exclusive.
 
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