"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Magic number of cold approaches to make during the day?

thechosenone2190

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How many cold approaches does it take to get laid with a HB who is equally as attractive as you?

To be more specific, could you guys please answer the following questions:
1) How many approaches minimum do I need to make before I see any success (get laid / find a girlfriend) with a HB who is equally attractive as me?
2) How many approaches maximum do you think will nearly guarantee me success (get laid / find a girlfriend) with a HB who is equally attractive as me?
3) How many approaches do you realistically and most accurately predict I need to make before I see any success (get laid / find girlfriend) with someone equally attractive as me?

This is coming from a newb who is just starting out. My game plan is to act natural and be direct ("Hello!"/"Hi!'/"Stop!"/"Hey! How are you doing"/"You're cute and I just wanted to say hi", "what's your name?", "where you from?",..."i got to get going, lemme give you a call sometime, what's your number?") If you guys answer this question, it will enable me to treat this game objectively as a science and numbers game as opposed to an art, thus helping me to overcome my approach anxiety. For example, if you say 500 approaches, I will have confidence in that number and treat it as a fixed goal for me to strive towards everyday. I will just tell myself "bang out 500 approaches and you're set" as I go through my rejections. It will greatly help me gain confidence to make my approaches.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drdeee

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You will get more yeses than nos. Find the hottest thing in view and approach her like she's the one.
 

Mr Wright

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500? if the first chick you speak to you is into you, thats one approach = one result. Dont spend your life getting all hooked up on the stats of all this, just live it.
 

Rikudo

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Its not about the number of aproches its about the aproch itself !! This is for later but for the begining i recomend you doing a lot of aproches mostly cold aproches out of nowhere where they dont expect it bcuse night game women are prepared for the aproch day game its different you can change theyr day if you do it right so try to do a lot of day aproches !!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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