"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Madonna Wh@re Complex, truth?

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Definition:

http://tinyurl.com/5858ln

I see this very common in many AFCs or inexperienced men and is probably responsible for at least 50% of divorces or dead relationships. I don't know why guys "settle" to be in a relationship just for the sake of it when people can obviously see there is incredibly lack of chemistry, mismatched, or it looks more like a "work" relationship than anything.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It is an interesting article, but I do not see the relationship between AFC, WBAFC or BAFC. It just talks about guys in general putting women into two categories. You either see a woman as a slvt, hor, or fvck buddy, if she has a reputation for sleeping around and won't likely marry her or you see her as a girlfriend or potential wife and then you'll marry her. What point are you trying to make? Would you want to marry a prostitute? It's a free country, do what you want.
 
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