"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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made out with some girl whose dating someone

garruk

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went to the club last night and i made out with some drunk girl, we were hanging out for the whole night, danced alot, drank alot and ended up making out. didnt go for anything else because after awhile it became apparent that she was pretty damn drunk.

anyways, we been talking casually but i just found out through a mutual friend she's dating someone, though they arent serious yet.



im not sure what "dating" means, but does this mean she cheated on him? once a cheater always a cheater in my mind so i would know not to pursue anything seirous with her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Scars

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Hardly a girl you should pursue being romantic with. Sloppy drunk, met her at a club, and "cheated" on her boyfriend. You can still let her suck on your knob though. I think you should of tried bedding her. Whether drunk or not she knew what she was doing. Chances are after she fvcked up with her boyfriend she started slamming even more drinks down to rationalize things to herself. After all, it's not cheating if you were drunk right? This is the kind of mindset a lot of girls have. You might have missed your opportunity, but in any case just don't get involved with her and take everything with a grain of salt.

If you see her again another drinking/club setting will probably your best bet. She's probably going to keep home boy around until he blatantly calls her out on her sh!t, and she can't suck up anymore attention/validation from him. So this gives her the perfect excuse to be a bad girl. Let her keep self deluding herself and play her like a fiddle. Next time you see her smash those cheeks then get rid of her.

Good luck.

-Scars
 

bigneil

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Although she doesn't sound like the best woman, I don't think she cheated. She would have to be in a committed relationship, not "dating". Every girl is "dating" someone. That said, I'd be more concerned with her possibly being an alcoholic or party girl.
 
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