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made out with some girl whose dating someone

garruk

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went to the club last night and i made out with some drunk girl, we were hanging out for the whole night, danced alot, drank alot and ended up making out. didnt go for anything else because after awhile it became apparent that she was pretty damn drunk.

anyways, we been talking casually but i just found out through a mutual friend she's dating someone, though they arent serious yet.



im not sure what "dating" means, but does this mean she cheated on him? once a cheater always a cheater in my mind so i would know not to pursue anything seirous with her.
 

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Scars

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Hardly a girl you should pursue being romantic with. Sloppy drunk, met her at a club, and "cheated" on her boyfriend. You can still let her suck on your knob though. I think you should of tried bedding her. Whether drunk or not she knew what she was doing. Chances are after she fvcked up with her boyfriend she started slamming even more drinks down to rationalize things to herself. After all, it's not cheating if you were drunk right? This is the kind of mindset a lot of girls have. You might have missed your opportunity, but in any case just don't get involved with her and take everything with a grain of salt.

If you see her again another drinking/club setting will probably your best bet. She's probably going to keep home boy around until he blatantly calls her out on her sh!t, and she can't suck up anymore attention/validation from him. So this gives her the perfect excuse to be a bad girl. Let her keep self deluding herself and play her like a fiddle. Next time you see her smash those cheeks then get rid of her.

Good luck.

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Although she doesn't sound like the best woman, I don't think she cheated. She would have to be in a committed relationship, not "dating". Every girl is "dating" someone. That said, I'd be more concerned with her possibly being an alcoholic or party girl.
 
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