Made out with chick at party, what next

[skinnydart]

I went to a party and ended up meeting a cute girl. We both got kinda drunk, her a little more than me. Actually for being drunk I was doing pretty well with being ****y/funny, neg hits, etc... e.g. She looks at me and says "you're kinda cute" and I responded "I know". Anyway I was like "don't worry, I'll take care of you" and from then on she pretty much wouldn't let go of me (literally). She's in high school and couldn't really go home so I offered to let her crash at my house. Her friend didn't want her to go because she thought I was going to take advantage of her since she was drunk, she was a little hesitant about going as well. I promised I wouldn't do anything and that I was just offering her a place to sleep.

A few of my other friends were going to crash at my place too, so on the way over to my house one of my friends sitting in the back seat who was also drunk says something like "you lucky bastard! you're gonna get to hook up tonight!" to which the girl quickly responded with "no, I'm not gonna fu.ck him". I'm not sure if she was just saying that because she had to or if it's true that it'll never happen with this chick. I know they say girls decide it they would fu.ck a guy in the first few seconds but if that was true you'd think she wouldn't want to make out with me either.

Anyway, we ended sleeping together in the same bed (no sex). We did make out for a while and the entire night she had her arms and legs wrapped around me.

The next morning was kinda weird, neither of us talked much, I had to take her home not long after we woke up. I was exspecting to get a kiss or something when I dropped her off. Instead when we got there she just jumped out of the car. She was kinda cute, had a cool personality, and from what I could tell was somewhat attracted to me so I didn't want that to be the last time I saw her. I got out of the car and asked "hey, do you mind if I call you?" to which she said "sure" to. I had gotten her number the night before.

In the past I've always gone out on a few dates before ever making out with a chick so now I'm not sure what would be the next step. Would it be kinda wierd to now go and ask her on an offical date, like dinner or movie or something or should I just call her up and ask her over to my place for a "movie" (making out, etc...).

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by skinnydart
I went to a party and ended up meeting a cute girl. We both got kinda drunk, her a little more than me. Actually for being drunk I was doing pretty well with being ****y/funny, neg hits, etc... e.g. She looks at me and says "you're kinda cute" and I responded "I know". Anyway I was like "don't worry, I'll take care of you" and from then on she pretty much wouldn't let go of me (literally). She's in high school and couldn't really go home so I offered to let her crash at my house. Her friend didn't want her to go because she thought I was going to take advantage of her since she was drunk, she was a little hesitant about going as well. I promised I wouldn't do anything and that I was just offering her a place to sleep.

Anyway, we ended sleeping together in the same bed (no sex). We did make out for a while and the entire night she had her arms and legs wrapped around me.

The next morning was kinda weird, neither of us talked much, I had to take her home not long after we woke up. I was exspecting to get a kiss or something when I dropped her off. Instead when we got there she just jumped out of the car. She was kinda cute, had a cool personality, and from what I could tell was somewhat attracted to me so I didn't want that to be the last time I saw her. I got out of the car and asked "hey, do you mind if I call you?" to which she said "sure" to. I had gotten her number the night before.

In the past I've always gone out on a few dates before ever making out with a chick so now I'm not sure what would be the next step. Would it be kinda wierd to now go and ask her on an offical date, like dinner or movie or something or should I just call her up and ask her over to my place for a "movie" (making out, etc...).

"movie"....no way....as soon as you say "movie"....she'll know what you want. Don't be predictable.....also, be sure to wait before the next date....if you want to make out...start off the date by doing something that's not "common" and then transition into the making out.

 

[foomee]

This exact same thing has happened to me, but only with college. As DJ4Real said, "do something not common" and then proceed. It happened with me with this girl and I really didn't have feelings for her until after that night. We didn't have sex, just sleep together and makeout. So the next weekend I took her to an awesome concert, Weezer and Foo Fighters and it was simply spectacular. She had a blast and that night we did quite a bit more making out and she slept over, and we did that almost every week for like 3 months after that. So um yeah, something not common..

 

[skinnydart]

Well, we live in a pretty boring city. How about ice skating?

 

[skinnydart]

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[ER!C L!VE]

Originally posted by skinnydart
Anyway, we ended sleeping together in the same bed (no sex). We did make out for a while and the entire night she had her arms and legs wrapped around me.

Did you try over and over until she gave you 'NO!' ? If not, next time be sure to - girls always say one thing and do another.

Originally posted by skinnydart

The next morning was kinda weird, neither of us talked much, I had to take her home not long after we woke up. I was exspecting to get a kiss or something when I dropped her off. Instead when we got there she just jumped out of the car. She was kinda cute, had a cool personality, and from what I could tell was somewhat attracted to me so I didn't want that to be the last time I saw her. I got out of the car and asked "hey, do you mind if I call you?" to which she said "sure" to. I had gotten her number the night before..

It's usually weird the next morning. Quite common acutally.

I usually have the girl's hug or kiss me before they get out of the car.

Originally posted by skinnydart
In the past I've always gone out on a few dates before ever making out with a chick so now I'm not sure what would be the next step. Would it be kinda wierd to now go and ask her on an offical date, like dinner or movie or something or should I just call her up and ask her over to my place for a "movie" (making out, etc...).

Hell yes it would be weird to take her on a date! You'd probably cock block yourself!

Look, she's proved to you that she's down with hooking up on the first night. Call her up, get her over to your place, pop in the movie, kino and then turn and make out with her. I rarely wait until the movie is over before I start macking on the girl. Hell, I've even started making out with a girl 5 minutes after she walked through my front door. I then led her upstairs to my bedroom.

She's a ho. Treat her like one. Fuck ice skating or doing something out of the ordinary. She's down - don't postpone the inevitable.