Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Made out with a friend while drunk...awkward?

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Well last night I got entirely too drunk and I pretty much blacked out, all I remember are a few things. One thing I remember is making out with one of my best female friends in the bathroom.

Next time I see her what should I do? I'm thinking I just wont say anything about it and pretend like I dont remember.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nosmirk

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join the club...

haha its gonna be awkward initially, for sure

1. what do you want from her? relationship or staying friends?

2. from there, you gotta gauge her reaction if you want a relationship.


to stay friends, just be normal and pretend it didnt happen. she should do the same too if she wants to stay friends.
 

Rata Blanca

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Ask her why she took advantage of you while you were drunk :)
 

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nosmirk said:
join the club...

haha its gonna be awkward initially, for sure

1. what do you want from her? relationship or staying friends?

2. from there, you gotta gauge her reaction if you want a relationship.


to stay friends, just be normal and pretend it didnt happen. she should do the same too if she wants to stay friends.

Ya, I want to stay friends, so I'll just not say anything about it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Act like nothing happened. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Your the guy so be the one in control. Play it cool and if she says something like "about the other night" cut her off and be "hey were cool I(or we) were both drunk and it was all in good fun and give her a nice smile and go on from there. If you make it awkward then she'll be awkward about it. If you act like it wasn't a big deal then it won't be.
 

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hahah happens to me all the time...get drunk black out do something stupid. I usually just lie and say i don't remember and then its forgotten about. Last time i did something like this I tried to make out with this chick when I was retarded drunk. Any ways she told every one I tried to **** her which I didnt, I just denied it and said thats not what happened and everyone believed me haha
 

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Ya, I want to stay friends, so I'll just not say anything about it
just dont purposely ignore her, that would make things awkward. be PERFECTLY normal, hi/byes and stuff. and dont bring up that night unless she does, and if she does, just follow Alphamale1821's advice


cheers :D
 
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