Ill get striaght to the point, I made out with a girl at a party about 3 months ago, and then again at a party recently. Now she constantly IM's me or sends me texts. saying stuff like "am i just a summer fling" and asking all these questions like we were on the verge of a relationship (which i totally dont want). Thank god Im going back to school in two weeks. How do you guys avoid the "clingy" girl.