"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Made of Honor
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
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Wow I think the people at Sony pictures are gonna have a lawsuit on their hands.
The whole concept of the movie is far too close to most of potato's posts on this forum to be mere coincidence!
Get your cash potato, don't let these bastards steal your ideas for their own profit!!!
The whole concept of the movie is far too close to most of potato's posts on this forum to be mere coincidence!
Get your cash potato, don't let these bastards steal your ideas for their own profit!!!
DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
dont you worry about patrick dempsey... one of my favorite films..
LOVER BOY ( hired bachelor to entertain women) to greys anatonmy ( lovestruck doctor with some woman who is not sure she wants him) and now this..
whats happened to our boy?
LOVER BOY ( hired bachelor to entertain women) to greys anatonmy ( lovestruck doctor with some woman who is not sure she wants him) and now this..
whats happened to our boy?
Luthor Rex
Master Don Juan
In the happy ending of this movie they shoot the guy who is this stupid...Made of Honor said:
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
whats with this movie ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rolle I was going to make a thread about this myself so good pick up.
UGH. This is exactly the kid of thing everyone talks about when mentioning how society turns guys into AFCs.
Does anyone know how it ends? That could be important. I mean if the guy ends up with the girl...
UGH. This is exactly the kid of thing everyone talks about when mentioning how society turns guys into AFCs.
Does anyone know how it ends? That could be important. I mean if the guy ends up with the girl...
SalParadise
Don Juan
... If your girl wants to see Made of Honour, just say that you'll take care of the tickets, and take her to see Iron Man instead ( it's the first fully masculine super hero film in aaaages ). When Robert Downey Jnr comes on screen, just say it's a cameo, and he's on his way to the wedding.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.