Ken785
Master Don Juan
nah dude its actually funny...lol. i just wanna see how peoples game can be. so maybe i can learn from them and do things differently. there are some major perverts out there...yeah...i think we all need to get out more....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
read my older posts from when this thread started to see....but heres a funny one you might have missed....read upKen785 said:hahaha nice. i just was messaging this guy back and forth then he gets all sexual n sh!t saying he wants to see what it tastes like between my legs cuz he hasnt eaten all day...and he wants to fvck me...then i give him my number (a rejection hotline) hes says..."thats cold". then sexuality tries to flirt with me more and i play along. i tell him to leave me alone now cuz im not looking for just sex. then i say well if you were just a gentlemen about this, things could have happened because i honestly thought he was sexy...(basically leading him on again playing push-pull) then he apoligizes and says hes drunk and is really a gentle men...so i continue playing push pull getting him all horney n sh!t.....
then i admit im a guy and i say...."how does it feel to be chatting with c0ck this whole time???" then he says hes gonna hunt me down and kill me! LMFAO!!!!!![]()
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LMAO! Leave in their comments, "thanks for making me breakfast this morning, you devil you ;-)"Create Reality said:when you get a good amount of friends, and they leave some sexy comments on your page, change your pic to some guy and your status to gay, and leave them each a nice comment![]()
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Create Reality said:when you get a good amount of friends, and they leave some sexy comments on your page, change your pic to some guy and your status to gay, and leave them each a nice comment![]()
lol how did you get to see the page, i set it to privateRata Blanca said:Too easy, google magic my friends
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=149932246
Who's the girl Ken?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.