"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what are guys thoughts on this show, more importantly the characters, esp Don Draper?
he has his demons, seems pretty cool otherwise, alpha, tall dark, typical for TV stereotyping.
his mannerisms ooze the traits preached on here. of course the set is in the 60's, smoking, drinking, womanising are all on open display.
can we get away with such behaviour now?
its more difficult but I believe men can if they are a little more circumspect, aware of surroundings and more cute.
love the show though
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I enjoy the show. You're right, he does seem to be a DJ. Showing dominance over the comedians wife by grabbing her hair and shoving his hand down her panties was just classic. He definitely has his miss-steps - operating at a high level gives him very little leeway when he shows weakness, for example with the jewish clothing boutique owner. Wanted to run away with her but she saw through it and realizes he's a man that runs from his problems like a coward. That was the end with her!

Good show, looking forward to the next season
 

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We all have to admit that Jon Hamm is a handsome guy. Originally, the character was written such that he wasn't supposed to be handsome -- he was supposed to be somewhat sloppy and devious-looking...but the director thought Hamm was the perfect for the role and so they rewrote the character to make him handsome.

I think Draper's behaviors are successful with women (and in his career) in the context of the 60's. In today's ultra PC, ultra polite society his behaviors would get him in serious trouble, regardless of how good looking he is.

If we want to emulate Draper the best way to do it would be to emulate his mindset which is that of a shameless salesman: hide/downplay the negative while simulaneously upplay the positive. Everything he does in his life has some sort of a sales pitch involved and he's successful because he's mastered the art of closing the deal.
 

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Good show , It is the only show that I dont have to watch pvssy men trying to please women
 

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Because this site needs another discussion about how certain fictional characters seem to attract other fictional characters based upon various fictional attributes of their fictional personas.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky said:
Because this site needs another discussion about how certain fictional characters seem to attract other fictional characters based upon various fictional attributes of their fictional personas.
I think somebody is on their period
 

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Zarky said:
Because this site needs another discussion about how certain fictional characters seem to attract other fictional characters based upon various fictional attributes of their fictional personas.
aww.. this site doesn't deserve these discussions right Zarky?

Sshhhh woman , men are talking.
 
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