"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Macking at WORK?

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I just got a job at the mall working at a department store. There is gonna be A LOT of hot women there. Not only that I will work with but customers as well. And it is in a HUGE mall. How can I mack and not get fired at the same time? LOL. Hopefully any of you guys with experience can help me out. THANX
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, first of all congrats on the job. I tried to get a job at the mall, but no dice, don't f.uck this up.

Secondly, you just mack. Nobody is a big enough ass to fire somebody for macking at work. If anything, its a good thing cause if they're feeling you, they might just come back to shop, if for nothing else, to see if you're there or not. I macked all the time at my old job. I had the biggest dyke manager, and I never got in trouble for it.
 
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rakishness, go back to the tips section and read my post.

It's all nonverbal, so what will you be fired for?

When I used to work in the sandwich shop, dude, lol, I fvcked in the back rooms and everything, lol.

But the mall is an excellent spot. I mean dude, getting laid is just a natural thing. You guys just really fvck everything up for yourselves and the woman with all these theories.

Let the theories go, be horny, control and channel your horny, and you will be fine.

Dude....there's nothing else.

I know 90% of the guys here will tell you it's more than that, but ummmm, remember. There's only a SMALL PERCENTAGE of people in this country ACTAULLY successful in multiple areas. All I'm saying, is dont' always take the majority answer, look into it yourself.

What's popular is not always correct, and what's correct is not always popular, and this rings true so much around here. Pook was flamed to hell. That guy spoke nothing but the true. Nothing.
 
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Word of advice from someone who's f*cked up at the job enough times to know:

don't mess with girls you work with. it ain't worth it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks for all of your suggestions.
If anyone has any other suggestions..I would appreciate it. THANKS AGAIN
 
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