"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mackdaddy27

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Tuesday morning after new years club view not happy with the way the club scene turned out.

Well I don’t know but my looks weren’t as sharp as I would have liked today..but I m happy this way because I get tensed up when I m good looking this takes the pressure off when I approach.

Anyway, the way I do things is that I just keep approaching different girls some of them who give me IOIs , so that I find one that is interested me and I stick to her until the night is over that is my general plan.

However, this is what happened didn’t even get 1 chance today. It was tough.

1# black girl wearing fishnet stockings. I talk to her while shes got it and I ask her where she got from it she says its from her work …and the guy shes sitting on is moving away to the other side of the bar so shes about to follow, but I say I m looking for a makeup artist..but obviously shes with another guy possibly it’s a long term relationship for her and shes interested in keeping.

Well I forgot to mention, even though I don’t have my hair shaved as short as I like at least I have the style that I like and I work with it’s the mike Tyson look and I could wear it all and every day.

2# the stylish girl, sitting on the stool I approach her and ask her about where shes from,
Shes from Maryland and I ask her how she likes it..and I leave and come back and keep talking to her but her friend interrupts blocks me, says shes married to her and shows her the ring. Which is the weird shyt I ve ever heard.

3# this blonde worker at the club, shes just sitting there and I m just trying to get her to talk, but she seems not interested and I end up bailing shes obviously not interested.

This super hot kinda fat girl with a leopard outfit on and I want to get with her but she leaves and I cant find her. This other girl with Ben, the dog trainer, is attracted to me but I cant do anything since I can’t dance.

4# another blonde at the club and I keep talking to her, but she ends up walking away from me, I didn’t like that at all. That sucked.

Never made the fifth approach..


0/4 but then i never asked for numbers but never did I feel that that club was conducive to girls being picked up
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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qstorm501

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mackdaddy27 said:
0/4 but then i never asked for numbers but never did I feel that that club was conducive to girls being picked up

Yea just keep banging away my man and about clubs you will find that the competition is greater and lot of times girls will be with some c*ck blocking friends or dudes.I personally prefer meeting chicks out and about but you have to be bolder and confident to pull this off. ( good looks dont hurt either)
Either way i like to use the baseball analogy. If a batter bats .350 he is considered a great hitter that means he FAILS to reach his goal of reaching base .650 of the time. If i were to approach 10 girls and only get 3 or 4 of there numbers i would consider that a success. Good luck!
 

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a piss poor time or maybe thats the usual sort of thing you all get?

I called up all the numbers in the stack, and i mean every single freaking one and it was first time call ing up everything at once but hey **** it.
This is the numbers when i called them up:

1# tonya , this is my oneitis i would LTR this girl thats how hot she. i am just trying to build comfort via phone call 2, i started off well i tell her i only have a few minutes can you chat for a few minutes and we talk for 10 minutes and then i dlv myself when i mention what else is new? she tells shes going to me in my town , I GET excited, and she tells me shes going to call me later but never does. I dont know if i lost this one or not, but i plan on calling her all next week. Anyway, I will say , i dont konw if you called back or not because my phone was off next time I call her. but she might have sensed deperation and it might be over, this was my prime a1 steak target but i think its close to be over , unless i can win on monday morning . I have no choice now, i called every single number in my list to get a number today, but i falied so i m going to just spend time taking care of paper work the rest of the day until i can go back to sarging on monday . Very depressing, i thought i had so many numbers , that i finally got some game. and finally i think i acted too interested, in what she was saying, which was clearly a dlv

2# black girl from club , i ask her if shes got a few minutes. , she says no, but to call her around 5

3# black girl from school. i call her, she says shes with her boyfriend. I tell her, i m going to call her at 8 or 9, if its shes free pick up or forget it.

4# columbian stripper- gave me a fake number

5# Russian girl, i tried to call it, but the number didnt' work, i wonder if its fake or I missed a digit or whatever i might leave a email and leave it

6#Stripper no2 - I called her, she says shes shopping and shes be back around 8 or 9 which i 'll give her a call at that time

7#Roberta - voicemail didn't sound like her at all. probably a flake, but i m not that interested in her anyway

8#morocian girl - i left a voicemail and told her to cal me when shes free

9# indian girl - I left a voicemail and told her to call me when shes free

My only way today is to try to for the black gril from ubs after 5pm and if shes willing to met for
coffee, then bingo else i've got other things i need to do today. I couldn't get hold of any girls on the phone when i called around 2 pm today maybe theyre all busy, some might back me back or i might try around 8 or 9 or **** it. I feel good that i was able to be confident when getting a number and ringing it up that part is easier so i m happy about it. I am glad i emptied out my phone list, because starting monday i know i m starting from zero agian and nothing was fruited out so i can go back to sarging and know exactly where i stand now. and I will know on monday if this thing with the tonya what the status is.
 
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