Georgepithyou
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Why does everyone always say free weights are better? Don't machine weights target certain areas that you specifically want to work out? Wouldn't that be better?
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I have some old shoulder injuries on both sides from playing high school hockey. I did free weights most of my life after that until I reached my early 40s. I find now that I feel a lot safer doing machines. I can bench 250 easily on a machine now but do not feel safe with that same weight on free weights. Being old sux!!Free weights force you to use stabilizer muscles, which lower the chance of injury.
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Of course not. You have to lower the weight and allow your stabilizer muscles to catch up. Having the discipline to do that is hard, I will say that. Most people want to go for the weight.I have some old shoulder injuries on both sides from playing high school hockey. I did free weights most of my life after that until I reached my early 40s. I find now that I feel a lot safer doing machines. I can bench 250 easily on a machine now but do not feel safe with that same weight on free weights. Being old sux!!
I have some old shoulder injuries on both sides from playing high school hockey.
This is exactly what I'm doing because I hurt both my rotator cuff's and want to avoid any invasive surgeries that aren't 100% guaranteed.You have to lower the weight and allow your stabilizer muscles to catch up. Having the discipline to do that is hard, I will say that. Most people want to go for the weight.
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I agree as long as its decent equipment that suits your body structure or mimics free weight movements.Just my opinion, I'm by no means a professional bodybuilder.
It's better to use machines than free weights for exercises with potential for shoulder or back injuries.
Examples: Row machine, shoulder press machine, leg press.
Sure, free weights are great. Those stabiliser muscles can be trained separately.
Don't just follow what everyone else says. Utilise the equipment in the gym.
This is exactly what I'm doing because I hurt both my rotator cuff's and want to avoid any invasive surgeries that aren't 100% guaranteed.
I've learned to do lighter dumbell weights with more reps and slower movement to make up for it.
People that see me assume I'm doing heavier weights based on my physique but in actuality my weights are pretty low but it protects me from future injuries as I age.
damn shoulder injuries suck , i popped mine out a couple years back, got into a fight last year and it popped againI have some old shoulder injuries on both sides from playing high school hockey. I did free weights most of my life after that until I reached my early 40s. I find now that I feel a lot safer doing machines. I can bench 250 easily on a machine now but do not feel safe with that same weight on free weights. Being old sux!!
Ok, get your smith machine squat with depth below parallel up to 3 plates. Recover. Attempt a 3 plate squat with a barbell in a squat rack to the depth of below parallel. See yourself fail at the first rep.I'll take a set of 20 reps at 135 lbs. done ass-to-grass.
I always do my squats via the Smith machine, and, as part of a 6-set series, I never exceed 225 lbs. for 10 reps.
For me, the key is DEPTH (whether done via the Smith or free weights). I've seen many knuckleheads loading the bar to 315 lbs. and squatting very half-assedly.
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I wouldn't do anything in a Smith machine personally, but agree with proper atg squats, with slight pause at bottom.I'll take a set of 20 reps at 135 lbs. done ass-to-grass.
I always do my squats via the Smith machine, and, as part of a 6-set series, I never exceed 225 lbs. for 10 reps.
For me, the key is DEPTH (whether done via the Smith or free weights). I've seen many knuckleheads loading the bar to 315 lbs. and squatting very half-assedly.
There's a correlation between the heavier weights you lift to the smaller d1ck you have... LolMakes me laugh to myself when men banter about how they squat 140kg plus for 8 reps.
There's a correlation between the heavier weights you lift to the smaller d1ck you have... Lol
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