"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Toushi

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(I know it sucks to open a thread just for this)

Well, I've been using my hair kinda long, and I liked the way it was. The problem it's that my hair can't keep the way I want too long. I mean, I go to school with a cool hair, but when I look to a mirror, my hair looks like sh!it.

So, in order to prevent this, I cutted my hair. Now, I use gel on it. But the same dan thing happens. E.g: Today, I went to school looking very nice, but when I got home, I looked at the mirror, and "WTF?!"...

It sucks to have to keep worrying about my hair... I'm thinking about cutting it really short, tough some friends of mine say I look better with long hair. What's your opinion about that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It is kind of hard to tell without seeing a picture. But I were you I wouldn't worry about it.
 

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I don't have any right now...

Well, it's not that easy to not worry... Imagine you get out of home looking very cool. You spend the whole day looking confident and stuff, and when you get home... O.O OMG, I spent the whole day with this hair? O.O
 

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Someday you will understand. It doesn't matter....Look at celeb guys, some of them(Johnny Depp, Jude Law, Tommy Lee, Brad Pitt) grow fully beards let their hair go to their shoulder, and do the ugliest **** to their hair. And they don't care how their hair looks because they know their appearance doesn't matter, and they will always be the ****.
 

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Hey man I use to have reallly long hair and I thought it was cool and people said it was cool but I also got told to get a haircut a lot. Oneday I decided to get a trim and now I still have my curls but its not outrasgeous. My advice is don't get it cut really short just get a bit of a trim and try to style it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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