"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Como estas fellas!?

Last week was great, and this week's gonna be even better.

So Melbournians, this is the plan- Wednesday the 26th, 8pm, "The Hawthorn" (Only place that is worthwhile on Wednesday nights). Tell us if you can think of any-thing better.

Reply ASAP,

Cheers,

iRrEsIsTiBlE. :)
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wednesday is good because I'm busy tuesday through saturday

Harp in Kew is also good on Wednesday, but it gets pretty congested and approaches may not be as easy.

but hawthorn it is. i'll be driving
 
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Just us three again it seems. And I'll be late again, work ya know?

The more the merrier, for sure. So come on Melbourne dudes, show us what you've got.

duke, do you use msn/icq? go to the old thread and add me.
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Since I'm going to be a late show, I'd like to discuss what goals we're setting ourselves etc etc. What strategies will be used etc.

I wish I could be there early, to discuss this in person and to psyche ourselves up, but it can't be helped.

I'd like to apologise for the "you know my mates they're shy" thing, but that was the only opener I could think of. I think I ****ed you guys up last time. Try, "Meet my friend [name], he's a really interesting guy, we met last week standing outside, and now we'd like to meet you" <-- which is congruent with our uber friendliness.

You know that I paid no attention their appearance before I approached. If they're standing alone, I say hello. This time, when I finally arrive, we'll be discerning on looks.

I would like you to go for a hug at the end of a meeting. No matter what. I'll admit that I'm to chicken **** to go for a kiss, but you fellas did a lot of hand shaking. So you go for a hug.

I'm going for a kiss. For now we'll just say 'on the cheek', because I'm feeling shy when I'm at home on the computer. Who knows how the situation/confidence/receptiveness may change.

Good that you're driving. You guys rock. Comment on the above. Thanks.



Irresistable... I need directions to the Hawthorn.. Address?
 
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Hey, It's on the corner of Glenferrie rd and Burwood rd.. RIGHT next to where you parked last time, remember? You can't miss it (If your stuck, gimme a buzz).

Btw, felony's also comming, I spoke to him the other day.

My goal, in addition to what you've set, is to get at least 2 numbers tomorrow- I'm just gonna ask and ask untill I get da number. But we'll see, let's just have a good time :).
NLaL, love your modified approach ("Meet my friend [name], he's a really interesting guy, we met last week standing outside, and now we'd like to meet you") sounds better than the last one :)

Cheers,
IrReSiStIbLe.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Heyyy fellas,

I dunno how much help id be, im involved at the moment, but i wouldnt mind coming out tonight nonetheless. I've got your phone come irresistable, ill see how i go with work today.

Cheers
 
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yeah that is a better approach this time NLaL :) I'll give you a lift home mate, if you're not driving

I want to try to be more suave, which I achieved last night (FR coming soon), and also work more on isolation rather than having big group convos.

These were effective, but didn't bring us any closer to getting the digits

Mental kino must also be attempted

And remember that the Hawthorn is smaller and more intimate than cheers. For this reason we'll have to be a little less obvious - otherwise everyone will know we are justing going from group to group!

Further to this - we need techniques for follow ups after getting the number. Is it number close, then try to avoid her the rest of the night? Or go for a second attempt to be more physical?

how does 8pm sound? I'll be there on time this time :)

and irresistible, I thought the hawthorn was a bit further up the road...not on the corner
 
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Heya Fellas,

I'm in, 8 o'clock sounds sweet, i think i may have a mate or two coming with me... one of them knows about SS but i don't think he pays it much attention... i haven't told him i'm meeting up with guys from the forums yet- but then i'm not sure he is coming yet either!

The hawthorn isn't quite on the cnr of glenferrie and burwood rd.. its a bit further up burwood... like a block or two... but you can't miss it... big glass windows, pool tables, usually gurls out the front not wearing much...

Sounds like it's goin to be a sweet evenin.. i'm looking forward to meeting u workin djs and since i don't have to work tonight i'll be there 8ish ! mad! i heard they have chicken parmagiana's and beers for 10 bucks or something lol.

Oh yeah i have a digital camera... but i'm not sure about bringing it... it's mad fun.. and we could post some pics... not that i'm really into that... but holding a camera all evening is pretty annoying! And i'm not about to take along my hand bag that matches the colour of my eyes..... lol.

Take care,
felony.
 
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and irresistible, I thought the hawthorn was a bit further up the road...not on the corner
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The hawthorn isn't quite on the cnr of glenferrie and burwood rd.. its a bit further up burwood...
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LOL, sorry boys, havn't been there for about 6 months and last time I was there I was pissed off my face, so I couldn't have remembered much... Sorry for misleading you, NLaL..

It's gonna be awesome! It's my good mate's birthday today, so I think he'll be comming (dw, he knows about sosuave, actually, he told me about it- he just doesnt go on it anymore though), the more the merrier :)

Can't wait,
IrReSiStIbLe.
 
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