"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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M-DJs and S-DJs need some input here...

Pancho84

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Hey ya'll lol
OK I have no problem approaching in person, tall short hot ugly, I'm past that. IN PERSON. however how the fuk would you reply to some online ads - sent this girl just a quick message saying that her profile made me drop her a line or two and to have a happy new year.... 3 days later she's like:

Hey there,
Thanks--Happy New year to u too!
Im doin ok----how r u doin?---ummm let me kno what u wanna kno and ill answer.....ok TTUL


So yeah I've never tried the whole online deal before so needless to say I'm pretty lost about it.
Some guidance, please!

tsaaaanks u sooo mucho
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Pancho84

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ok dumb me lol I'm going to do a search on this topic i'm sure its been brought up before.. i guess it slipped, but still anyone has some input?
later
 

Pancho84

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my bad hahahha right after posting i'm like wait a minute i should do a search lol thanks peeps lol
 
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